How can I fall?

[Simplewish]

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Like the song I wonder How can I fall for someone? Been in many relationships (1 at a time of course) but would you believe me if I say I've never been in love? My friends know this is true...and some of them even jokingly call me "the girl with a stone for a heart"

But then, how will I know I am in love or not? One thing I know and why I could say I wasn't in love was because I felt nothing during the closing chapter of each book....

I was in fact looking forward to being single again....

You think I have a problem?

(wala lang....i'm writing out of boredom and kay ulan...tamad molakaw) hehehe

[yvonne6]

^^ u cant give what u dont have girl. u r probably someone who lacks love from people around you or simply loves yourself less but is not seeing this subconsciously bah. u have to love yourself first before u can love others. ana lang

[xyrcler]

TS, I think you should not measure your feelings for someone when your about to call it quits, because in the first place your quitting because it's not making sense.

And try to loosen up, i think you just don't want to be hurt so you kinda closing your doors for everyone. you musn't stay inside your shell if you want to experience something new, after all life's a risk.

[Simplewish]

^^ u cant give what u dont have girl. u r probably someone who lacks love from people around you or simply loves yourself less but is not seeing this subconsciously bah. u have to love yourself first before u can love others. ana lang

Hi sis, thanks for ur input but believe me i hv the unconditional love of my mom, family and very close friends and family friends and I do love myself...i think especially my freedom to do what i want..when i want without being too self centered...i am a loving friend, daughter and if friends ta, ma girl or boy ka grabe ta ka i pamper but that's it...if friends....family....children....but if uyab na...wako paki kaau...

Tnx though..

[Simplewish]

TS, I think you should not measure your feelings for someone when your about to call it quits, because in the first place your quitting because it's not making sense.

And try to loosen up, i think you just don't want to be hurt so you kinda closing your doors for everyone. you musn't stay inside your shell if you want to experience something new, after all life's a risk.

Tnx bro..yeah daghan namo cge ingon nako ani...i even tell myself to loosen up and be committed jud...tried to assess sad before na dont want to get hurt siguro but murag dili man...but i agree with u, life is all abt risking....

To risk nothing is to lose nothing at all. And i am a very adventurous person man unta but when it comes to this, ambrot...hehe

[azaleayve]

You are somewhat like a person inside a small box, as what others say scared to take a risk in loving. You are not getting any younger, and someday somehow you will look for that someone who can make you say I AM IN LOVE. Maybe wala pa nimo siya nakit-an, don't lose hope, date men, be with them, get yourself a man, pero ayaw sila paasaha nor play with their feelings.Just allow yourself to fall for them not forcing yourself to do so.

[2kELEVEN]

Statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. Ako to nabasahan sa redears digest before sis, sa ako na recall..

As you mention, u've been in many relationships, mag dependi jud pud na basin direyot rato imo mga ka relasyon way back before..

Nya to continue: They have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.

But: We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves. Basin, pero ikaw sis can u divulge any further details as to why ing ana ka (Share ko beh, murag nahan ko ana dah, dili dali ma fall easily bah? hehehe jokes

[yaj.em]

maybe, you still haven't found the right one that can make you cry like a river.... wait lang, matamaan ra ka ana... sakit jd bya na if matablan ka

[j3p0x]

wala man ka nigawas sa imo safezone gud sis,..ehehe

[Simplewish]

Thanks guys...na im what they say...so one with the boys...
Then if naa maganahan nako..mga maganahan nako sington jud kay strong daw kaau ko ug personality or dating...mahadlok daw sila nako...libog ko unya mga migo nako sila mo ana cool ko but kahadlokan...pwede diay na? Hehehe

Cge thanks jud sa mga opinions and insights....nahan ko ani dah..out of boredom ra man unta kay ulan kanina naka think ko ug starting this thread kay gi close na akong gikalingawan na thread and lain sad sa akong buy and sell ra ko sige tan aw...hehe

Thanks mga bros and sis