can trust prevail?

[sunflame]

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Okay guys... here's a situation that is usually common or simply, quite similar to people who are having relationships...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for more than 2 years and daghan nami ug ka-agi like from tears to smiles and stuff like that... then there was a time nga nagbreak mi because of pride of both of us and eventually, gabalik mi when we realize our worth. But before that, she mentioned that she has a suitor. Then nangukay ko sa iyang email and cge ug message ang iyang suitor maski karun... pero wala nya ma-add sa fb. Silbi message lang gud hehehe that happened last few weeks nga cge ug message tong tawhana and my girlfriend just replied "end statements" like "ah ok" nga kanang lisod na replyan ba hehehe then karun lang jud, mga 20 mins before, nakakita ko sa iya email ug [NAME SA SUITOR] and [NAME NYA] as "New Message from [NAME SA SUITOR] and [NAME NYA]. Sa facebook na. Dle ko pwede mo-open kay masakpan nya nga nangukay ko. So, murag naka feel nako ug something negative na jud. I tried searching that name on fb but to no avail. It just leads to the suitor's profile nga wala nako ma-add.

Guys, I trust my girlfriend enough. Not to much, not to less. Sakto lang gud. Unsa man ako buhaton ani? If mo-reveal ko ani nga butang, obvious na kaau nga nangukay ko sa iyang email. Which is another issue db? If I keep my mouth shut, naay mga things nga mahitabo. Natagam nako a2 sauna nga salig kaau ko then naay nahitabo. So guys, I'm planning to take action on this one. Any ideas on how to deal with this stuff?

[jom22488]

Luom.. bitaw.. happened to me before.. wala raman ko.. although she ended up entertaining another suitor kae i had my faults.. lisud ipadaun ang relationship if walai trust.. have you talked to her about it??

[Dondon]

Mark as Unread bro. Hehe. Binoang ra, bad man sad gyud nang manghilabot ka bro. Pero ug ikaw di ka mahimutang, aw larga brader.

Mas maayo pa'g mag bantay2x lang sah ka bro.

[tenda]

mao na resulta brad. you are intruding privacy

kung wala pa unta ka mo try ug open di unta ka masakitan.

bitaw brad, talk it seriously with your gf if what she really feels about you.

basin nag dahom lang ka nga kamo pa. face the consequences. good luck.

[ad_dur]

ma-buslot gihapon ang trust bai ...

[sushikandi]

Ask your girlfriend what's going on with this suitor. Then tell her you are not comfortable her communicating with him. Its best to let her block the guy and cut all communication. Goodluck!

[LeeLeePot]

pagdungan mug basa sa message ni suitor pra makampante imong kalooban..heheh..unya dungan pud mug mugna ug maayong ireply..atleast you're doing it together and sure jud kang waa xa naminuang.heheh

[sparkolboi]

Trust prevail. But Biga can also prevail.

[carbrill]

ask her in a nice way... to make ur relationship last, open communication is the key, i think she will understand nga nag selos ka about sa iyang suitor... hehehe... ayaw ra paila pd... lol...
lisod man gud nga daghan ka'g mahuna2x nga bati towards her basn nya sayop ra di ai ka...

[handurawan]

don't paly numb and dumb bro.... u need to clear things out before it gets worse especially sa imong side..... talk to her and tell all ur agony... it's time to spill the beans bro... pero pangandam sa mga possibilities nga mkasakit sa imong balatian.... hehe