when karma come knocking

[yvonne6]

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here i go again. with the istoryans that followed most of my threads (mostly were really sad), however, i moved on and i hope i will empower other women to leave their abusive, controlling and mean man in their life. karma came knocking on my ex's life yet he didnt even know it. i was badly hurt but when i look at him, dili man diay ako ang luoy, kundili siya. i really dont know how someone like him would feel...kana ganing murag gitalikdan kas kalibutan. he was too damn selfish that he was treating me so badly for a very long time, prioritized his so called friends and didnt even realize nga mao ni sila nga mga friends ang hinungdan sa pagka guba sa iyang kaugmaon. it hurts looking at their pics sa tanan nilang mga laag2 sa fb and multiply when he didnt have a pic of us with out son. thats an old story anyways. and how is he now? well, as far as i can remember, murag tag 1 semester ra siya sa 3 ka lain2 nga courses iyang gi kuha, so technically, wala gani ka complete ug 1 year sa college. give up na ang sister nga nag pa eskwela. gi awolan ang tanan work gisudlan (really big companies), karon, wala nay halos masudlan kay wala nay modawat tungod sa iyang work attitude. naa may laing work pero dili siya ganahan kay naanad ug dagkung sueldo, ang resulta, murag 2 years na kapin nga walay trabaho. in short, wala gani ni ka sustento sa iyang anak until now. ang iyang mom, dili na lang siya tagdon kay gusto pa mabuhi ug taas. ang amahan, ma highblood ug iyang huna hunaon ang akong ex. ang mga igsuon disgusted kaau, kasumbagon na kaau ang iyang kuya niya kay nanguha na ug mga butang sa ilaha walay pananghid. he did this to me na. ni enter naman ug suyop2 tungod sa barkada. i gave up on him few months back, he was not able to see his son. he has nothing na jud but his wicked friends. one time, i saw him sleeping on my bed few months ago, ang iyang briefs/boxers, buslot2 na. i told myself, my god, this man cant even buy his own underwear, yet ga ingon ani? its his fault though he allowed this to happen to him, yet, nalain ko sa iyang mga barkada nganong ingon ani ang ilang goal sa ilang life. to begin with, they didnt like me because i am not like them. life is too short and life is beautiful no matter what. i have goals that i wanted to achieve and i get them somehow, not quickly but i do get them. i am successful by achieving my goals in life and luckily, i have a meaningful life less my ex. i have a nice job, have my own house, got business, i live comfortably....if he was only a committed bf to me and a good father to our son, i would be so willing to share what i have to him, but he didnt want it, he preferred his friends over us. i told him a long time ago, karma will come knocking...natabo na niya akong gi ingon. friday, we will be meeting sa bgy hall, i will get a restraining order that he wont set foot again sa akong lugar. i was not home, he came here and took my motorcycle without my permission. ga drugs na siya, so i cant trust him anymore. guys, im sharing this story so it maybe an eye opener for people both men and women that there is indeed karma. dili ta magpalabi sa atong gibati... all comments are welcome here, ayaw lang tawn mog bugal2

[indeeppain]

KARMA GOES AROUND COMES AROUND...... THAT'S WHAT YOU CALLED KARMA BABY... AND IT COMES AROUND... I BELIEVE IN BAD KARMA JUD AI... I'm happy for you that you really did your best to move on with your life without your "ex"... ma abot ra nya ang guy para nimu ug ako sd nagpa abot sd kus akoa... hehehehe

[Cory1986]

aw, na picture out nako imong ex as my kuya. mura jd akong kuya ai but wala jd ko na wagtangan ug hope (hapit na,last na jd!!) Naa na xa sa rehab now and he is doing so good. hopefully, mao na ni. tungod sa iyang ka good, maka leave na xa sa rehab once a week and xa na nag handle sa iyang money, para sad daw ma hibaw.an sa mga admin sa rehab id makaya ba nia ang outside world, right After mo uli xa sa rehab, rAndom drug test dayun. nahan kos sa rehab ai kay di pakalitan ug gawas bah like 2 years kas rehab and ayha ra sad ka pagawson. i hope, mao na ni..

oT: karma na jd na Maam, maglagot sad ko mag huna2x sa akong kuya sauna kay bsan naa nay anak, cge lang suyop but now, murag na usab na jd xa.. Maam, ur ex will give up and continue sa iyang vices kay all his family turned their back on him na.. eithier death or life lang na iyang choices sa life

[yvonne6]

aw, na picture out nako imong ex as my kuya. mura jd akong kuya ai but wala jd ko na wagtangan ug hope (hapit na,last na jd!!) Naa na xa sa rehab now and he is doing so good. hopefully, mao na ni. tungod sa iyang ka good, maka leave na xa sa rehab once a week and xa na nag handle sa iyang money, para sad daw ma hibaw.an sa mga admin sa rehab id makaya ba nia ang outside world, right After mo uli xa sa rehab, rAndom drug test dayun. nahan kos sa rehab ai kay di pakalitan ug gawas bah like 2 years kas rehab and ayha ra sad ka pagawson. i hope, mao na ni..

oT: karma na jd na Maam, maglagot sad ko mag huna2x sa akong kuya sauna kay bsan naa nay anak, cge lang suyop but now, murag na usab na jd xa.. Maam, ur ex will give up and continue sa iyang vices kay all his family turned their back on him na.. eithier death or life lang na iyang choices sa life

good for your kuya. its a good news kung naa man gani taw naningkamot nga mabag o. kapoi naman gud mam. imagine ang almost 7 years, i was almost at the point nga ma get use nalang ko sa abuse and i dont want to be in that situation or i will lose self respect. it would be easy to be there and help someone if in the first place they acknowledge that they indeed need help. dili gani mo angkon nga naay bisyo bisan ug klaro na kaau. its really sad that for some people, its always learning the hard way. daghan na kaau ang nangadaut ug namatay tungod sa drugs, i dont understand why a lot are still hooked to it

[butong101]

if i were you get a restraining order from a court.. kay basin dili mo 2o sa brgy..

[watashi]

trespassing!

what you did sis is a good move.

di gyud magsaba ang gaba.

[watashi]

ooops sorry double post

[madina]

hala indeed tinood jud diay ning karma sah...nka remember pud kos among silingan bah nga sauna as in drug addict jud kaayo sya as in iyang lawas butot balat na unya maglakaw nga lupig pay tiguwang magbako and maglisod pud syag ginhawa and then one time gitagaan syag chance nga mag bag-o. So there comes this mga madre nga nisugot nga mo adopt niya. So ni spend syag pila ka years ngadto and tood man positive ang nahitabo. Iyang lawas nibalik ug naundan nah and he looks very healthy nah but when he decided nga muhawa na sa costudy sa madre. There is this situation nga niuli sya sa ilang lugar and nibalik ra gihapon ug bisyo until niabot najud iyang karma iyang lawas nabalik jud hinoon pagka daot, again maglisod japon ug ginhawa ug ngbako sya. Malooy man unta tah pero sila man goy nagbuhat ug padayon sa ilang sayop. Everytime mo agi siya sa atubangan igo nlang ta maka ana "kalooy pud"...

[LeeLeePot]

hmm...ambot lan jud peo masakitan ko sa mga taong makaranas ug karma even though they deserve it kai gipasakitan pud ko nila...well, d ko magplinastik but out of hatred, i really wished hard nga unta patagamon tong mga tao nga nagpahilak nako kai waa jud baya koi gibuhat nila...but in the end pagkawala sakong kalagot, i'd end up going to church and praying nga dli paminawon akong ill-fated prayer of karma.hahah! kai nakarmahan naman gud ko. it's never a nice experience. so i don't want other people who had been a part of my life to feel what i've felt so dli nlan..ang ako nlan ginapray kai kanang naay mahitabo nga makapacorrect sa ilang gibuhat to redeem themselves. peo sa imong sitwasyon TS, i salute you for your strength! baga lan jud xag face. daghan na xag chances namiss. tsssk! i pity him.

[sparkolboi]

i also believe in karma. pero tag pray jud naku na dli ma bad karma ako X ky i know dli nya makaya an iya gehimo naku.