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    What do u think about mag live-in before marriage?
    Most people said live-in is a better way to know someone before marriage(engagement) para ug dili diay magkasinabot sayun ra pag buwag or if sila jud ahw minyo dayun.

    Is live-in really a good engagement?

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    times have changed.. and because of the difficulty of getting out of a marriage in case they cannot make it work.. OR basin mag adik2x ang partner or other irreconcilable differences.. then live in is a good practical way to start a marriage life.

    You know, I am catholic but I do not judge those who are living in instead of getting married.
    Was born in to a dysfunctional family and it is just not the best when your parents fight and push themselves to make things work..
    Do you know how hard it is to see your father hurt because his wife is cheating?
    na pugos lang giud siya ug stay kay tungod minyo..
    and then my dad met someone else... may not be the best mom to me but i think he was happy somewhat..

    mao na.. live in is not so bad.. we shouldnt judge.. times change and the way to build a family should catch up with the times also..

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    live in--- mura ra nig practicum towards marriage....


    i am into this at present and i am thankful i had been into this. wla ko kabalo asa mi padulong ani...either mahagsa mi as married couple or just mere room mates in the end.

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    okey raman if mag live in sa mo kajot sa imung partner aron sab masuta ninyung duha kung asa jud mo kutob kai susama sa giingon ni LeeLeePot sama rani ug practicum sa kaminyu-on

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    Una sa tanan Dili ko makig lalalis sa mga mo contradict sa ako pilosopiya hap...kay respto ko ninyo tanan........Para nako lang sayop man na ang LIVE-IN style before marriage......I-set aside nalang nato ang Religious aspect para medyo patas ta.

    Para nako (lalake man ko) alkanse ang babaye nga akong partner kun ako syang ikapuyo unya after several years ako syang buwagan for whatever reason...

    Ang image sa babaye (whether we deny it or not) kay mo ubos gyud sa panan-aw sa uban pang lalake (dili nuon tanan) kun mi-agi na ug live-in.......Kana man ganing brand new nga sports car mu ubos man gani ang value basta ma secondhand na maski pila pa ka buwan ang gamit kana pa hinoung babaye nag gi live-in....dili kaayo ni mahitabo sa lalake kay bias man atong kultura diri sa Pinas.

    So, mu ingon ta nga maayo ang live-in kay mura ug OJT sa pagka minyo....naay punto ..PERO dili na ang solusyon.

    Dapat sa BF/GF pa gani ang relasyon kinahanglang mag swetohay na ta sa isig usa...dili mag plinastikay...i-pagawas ang pinaka bati nga batasan para dili ma-ilad ang ato partners, kun makadawat sya sa imong negative traits ug vise versa, then dako ang chances nga mulungtad ug makanunayon ang inyong relsayon kun maminyo na.......Unya kun naa pud tay kinaiya nga bati, dapat ato gyud paning kamutan nga mausab na BEFORE ta ma-minyo, SAYOP na kun mo-ingon ta nga "Mausab ra lagi ko kun maminyo na" or "mausab ra lagi sya kun maminyo na nami".....What if kun di mausab? dakong gubot unya mu-ingon dayon BATI gyud ning maminyo.

    Peace tang tanan diri hap.....Ako ra pud ni (I will not force this to anybody)

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    Quote Originally Posted by LeeLeePot View Post
    live in--- mura ra nig practicum towards marriage....


    i am into this at present and i am thankful i had been into this. wla ko kabalo asa mi padulong ani...either mahagsa mi as married couple or just mere room mates in the end.

    mere roommates in the end... that is just sad
    i have witnessed several failed marriages and i certainly don't want to be in one, that is why i am not against live-in. Eventually, i still want to get married if i completely feel that the time is right and i'm doing it with the right person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LeeLeePot View Post
    live in--- mura ra nig practicum towards marriage....


    i am into this at present and i am thankful i had been into this. wla ko kabalo asa mi padulong ani...either mahagsa mi as married couple or just mere room mates in the end.
    my dearest wise counselor.. to be "room mates in the end" is more painful than pain. the memories will haunt us forever. it will take eons to diminish but they will never disappear.

    but i agree, live-in... murag practicum. it unmasks the true characters of the partners. kay there is no CTRL-Z once married na.

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    i am a practical type of person and an atheist ( i dont need any religious aspects towards this matter).
    i think since divorce/ annulment statistics has been growing higher, i think its more practical to be living together first with your partner rather than marrying each other like what most catholics do.no offense to those catholic people okay?
    i think living together is like a "TRIAL AND ERROR THING" where in you will be able to see the real colours of your partner if you guys are really meant to be and you want the same thing in life.
    getting along together without having to kill each other everyday is a big factor in marriage. and living together can help you sort this thing out.

    i find living together beneficial for both parties, you get to know well the person once you guys live in the same roof ( if he/shes well-organized, tidy or just a total mess, if you guys really have the same perspective when it comes to marriage and having kids not just all about talks when your still in a relationship.and when you finally decide to get married at least itll be so much easier no need to adjust anymore ).

    if you jump in marriage straight away without de-facto,what if you married the wrong person? YOU WILL GET A DIVORCE AND THEN SPLIT UP YOUR HARD EARNED MONEY (PROPERTIES YOU ACCUMULATED BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED) unless nalang nag pre-nup agreement mo which i dont think is a good thing kay malain gyud imong partner. pre-nup is like having no trust to your partner and when you split up...your kids will suffer and will be more affected with the situation .
    Last edited by nitwit; 07-15-2011 at 09:51 AM.

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    I really hate this settlement! It is very unrespectful.

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    live-in?

    A mortal sin and it's against the will of God - Period.

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