little things we fight about with our GF/BF

[kemalzeppy]

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Bro, I need your advice, here's what happened;

My relationship with my girlfriend has not been so sunny and bright lately,
almost everyday she would find something to fight about, it's really irritating and insulting on my part nga every conversation we talk about ends up to a fight, our relationship got to a point nga even when I'm driving she is arguing and shouting at me. I know it's healthy for a relationship to have occasional fights but to fight about.....it's driving me crazy

We fight about...
-Why I was in school on Saturday (She wouldn't believe I was in school finishing my lab experiment she thought I was in my acquaintance party)

-Why I comment on every car I see (I always share my thoughts about cars, i like cars, she thinks I'm being boyish and too Immature for her, hey I'm 19)

-Why I always look at new gadgets( I always drop by to see the latest phones she thinks that i already have a good phone and she thinks that maybe I'm also like that with girls)

to make my point, How can I stop these "little" fights?, for me (kay laki ko) gamay ra ni nga away pero for her, she makes it a big fight

share pud mu sa inyu mga reasons mag away mu, daghan pa kay ko ma share.

[sushikandi]

Because its always abt you you you. Ask her how her day went or update her with the thing she has been talking abt lately. Ask her opinion on this and that. Make her feel involved. What's the thing she's into, try getting to know abt that. Engage her into conversations or stuff that you both agree on. Rather than just your likes, wants & whereabouts. Women are like weather, very unpredictable & u have to stretch your patience. Be more malambing.

[sweety_kai]

agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!

[chachii]

same here agree q ni sushikandi. . .kaw nlng permi,wat about c GIrL??. .

[phattchoi]

Because its always abt you you you. Ask her how her day went or update her with the thing she has been talking abt lately. Ask her opinion on this and that. Make her feel involved. What's the thing she's into, try getting to know abt that. Engage her into conversations or stuff that you both agree on. Rather than just your likes, wants & whereabouts. Women are like weather, very unpredictable & u have to stretch your patience. Be more malambing.

idol! right on the money

[BENZI]

I think there is something more behind the little fights...I believe you need to talk to her regarding what you feel...she may understand or she may not but what is important is that you open your heart to her and express your real feelings. Lisod kau sabton ang girl part...they tend to see you as someone who can predict what they feel...maybe she also has something to share to you nga dili lang niya ma share...

[yaj.em]

boy nakafeel ko ing ana sa ko yabz sauna... dali ra au ko sapoton nya ug wala ko kbaw y na ingato ko... then i realize na wala na., as in wala na d i ko na feel para nya.

I don't know if pareha ba mi na feel sa imo gf now, pero try to talk to her. maybe ng naa ka pagkuwang nya ug nglisod xa open nimo mao mgsapot xa....

[ulyssa_marie]

There's always a certain phase in a relationship where a girl becomes like a nagging mom. haha

She's just going through insecurities and wants your attention. More appreciation on your side or you to be sensitive. You may not notice, but perhaps something's bothering her.

Remember, a girl won't complain without a reason. Try to listen to her.. get her to talk about whats going on in her head.. don't be dense, and talk it over. Read between the lines of her complaining and nagging and soother her irritation.

[dell]

kulang lang sa pasinsya yan dapat malalalim na pg uunawa...

[istiban tini-il]

tama na... dapat give and take