magpagawas ra kos akng gibating samuk kaayu..

[meltd0wn]

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hi guys..share ra ko sa akng dilemma..here it is:

at one point in time (around 2 months ago ra actually) nagkasuod ko sa isa naku ka babae na friend..at that time, shaky ang relationship niya sa iyang uyab, shaky pd akng relationship with my gf..to make the long story short, we became each others' "someone-to-lean-on"..we didn't reach the bf-gf point kay we know we still love our current partners..pero during that time, para malimtan ang problema, we went out together very often..gym, doing some errands, out of town laags, kuyog mi pirme..to the point na nagtuo jd amng mga officemates na there's something between us pero wala jd..we never even held hands!!

after 2 months, our relationship with our partners settled down..na-OK na sila sa iyang uyab, ok na pd ko sa akng uyab..maybe because we both tried to support each other sa amng mga problema pd sa amng love life, so to speak..so we were able to survive that crisis sa amng life..

now akng gikalibgan kay, i miss those times with her..LDR mn gd mi sa akng uyab, then iyang uyab kay naa ra pd dinhi..so sa iyahang part, katong nagka-OK na sila, the usual times we spend together were gone..nya sort of naanad na bitaw ko katong naa pa siya.. T___T

i think nagselos ra ko sa fact na siya kay naa gihapn kauban then ako kay lonely ra gihapn balik..though mag-text/call ko sa akng uyab, but physical connection is still way much better..wa lng..pagawas ras akng gibati..hahaha!!work mode

*sorry wa mn gd koy blog storyans..pa-share lng sa nya kog insight about ani sa akng post pra dili ra kaayu siya blog-like tan-awn.. *

[azaleayve]

it's what some psych pipz says TRANSFERENCE..karon ra na siya bai, kay naanad man gud ka niya, plus the fact that she was there when you needed someone to lean on.. that is the difficult part there kanang ma fall naka or makafeel og sumthng sa tao nga imong gikadependan...^_^ if u really love your gf, try to avoid that certain feelings coz to tell you, it won't last..^_^

[yvonne6]

bro, live simply and dont complicate things kay u really wouldnt like ug maglabad lang imong ulo anang imong libugon imong kaugalingon. ga long lang ka ug someone. pangita ug laing friend, kung puede kanang dili committed like me. hahaha. seriously, be happy for her. ayaw na lang ug miss2 ato times nga ga enjoy mo with each other and dont even let her know kay basig ma confuse rana siya. i bet, walay maau resulta ug mao na. gubot lang. if u want peaceful life, let her be with her bf na lang

[nealotol]

ok ra na siya bro.

[KASAAC]

i find it really amusing for some to seek complications and seem enthusiastic of the drama it brings...makasuya

[reigel99]

awwwwweeee.......
No need sa advise namo brad...
kabalo man ka kung unsay tama... ayaw lang jud buhata ang mali.... good luck....