paetz ang uyab2x..

[sushilover]

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mao ni kabati kung uyab kay mawala atung identity. ma dependent nlng ta sa atung uyab. maanad nlng ta na kamu nlng duha and ok ra kaayu para natu. nawala na mga friends. kung magbuwag o nag "space" kay wa na kbaw unsay buhaton na lingaw. i hate it so much ako gi give up akong trabaho para lng muwork ko under sa iyang trabaho. =( krn he's having fun with his friends and ako wa koi lingaw ma huna2 coz akong mga "friends" kay bc with their life! paets aning uyab-uyab sa? hhhaayy

[Exodus.Genesis]

TS,

Remember, when your in a relationship, do not create your own world. Because you will be left behind, when you realize that everyone else has moved on. Do not give up anything for just "the both of us".

The result of a relationship should be an addition of bliss to your life, and not the minimization of how you live your life.

Good luck TS. i hope things improve on your side.

CHEERS

[bowee]

@TS,

On my take.. simply put at it... when loving someone.. love yourself first... Don't give all of yourself and leave some of that love to you... In that way, whenever the inevitable happens (like breakups) you still can salvage yourself because you did not give all of it to him.

Simply put it again, give 60% of your love to him.. 40% to yourself.... Worst comes to worst.. you still have that 40% to manage whenever the relationship would gone bad already... and the sooner you can claim back the 60% loss to yourself... the sooner you can get back to being whole again...

Take it or leave it.. it's my take....

[icon_king]

@naa ra na nimu ug unsaon nimu ang imung kinabuhi. Dili ra kana ang pwede nimu huna hunaon. naa pay daghan mas maayo

[Cory1986]

dont make him your world. make him think you are busy with your world and he have to fight to be able to get to have a dinner with u. kana iming gibuhat karon, easy2xhon lang ka sa imong bf. he wouldnt care bec he knows he is holding your neck. men are like that. make yourself unavailable sometimes

[christinetinetineo6]

dili man pait ang uyab2.
as long as there is balance. you spend time with your friends.
and you might as well let your partner get to know your friends para friends pud sila and they'd know kinsa imung uyab para okay ra pud nila kung at times wala ka sa ilang laag2 or get together.
just do the same lang pud sa imung partner. get to know his/her friends.

but in every relationship, there should be balance and understanding.
sa akung relationship rn, everything works fine. suod akung BF sa akung friends and aku pud sa iyang friends. and both friends sa iya ug sa akung side, maka sabut ra kung dili mi maka kuyog nila kung naai laag2 kay nag date mig amu. hehe

if mangawala gani ang imung friends kay tungod naa na kai uyab, i don't think they understand your part. friends are friends, they should understand you. i had a very close friend nga sukad naa na kui uyab, nilain na iyang treatment naku. pirmi na jud mamiya and to think, best friends baya unta mi. and my dad told me nga if aku jud to siyang friend, she'd understand me. single pa man sad to siya, mao nga dili jud siya makafully understand and no matter how hard i try to explain to her about me giving this time for her and that time for my BF, dili jud siya maka gets kay ganahan sha nga halos akung time naa niya. mao sad nai naka pait gamai atung HS "best friend" naku sa amung relationship sa akung BF.

[hugaw]

lisud jud au ning gugma..gugmang giatay jud..
pero kung both parties hu truly loves h ader,
dey wud give everything jud...

naa rajud na sa taw...

[nilbud]

naa rana nimo f kabaw ka mo control d kay ma out of control hehe

[papzkie]

TS controla pod na inyong relasyon oi. Don't live na siya imong kalibutan TS. Having a relationship kay dapat naa mo understanding sa matag usa TS. you should know asa ka mo lugar. Dapat kamong duha ang malipay, if dle gane na mo work then find a way to solved it.

Just sit and wait for him, then talk about sa inyong relationship kung unsay status ninyong duha.

Cheer up TS!

[JoyCeeMarie08]

mao jd na mahitabo usually, which i think d jd kalikayan labi na gugmaan kaau.
mo-focus nlng sa uyab mao na kung magbuwag lisod kaau i-move on since naanad naman na ang uyab cgeg kuyog..

keep yourself busy nlng ts with other things. ipakita sa imong bf na d lng sa iya gatuyok imong world. na u can have fun without him pd. attractive man tan-awn ang babae na independent kaau.