what could hurt a man's pride the most?

[yvonne6]

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we were on a long break from work last night and everything was just light, mostly just chit chatting and joking around. i got to talk with several girl team mates and they were sharing about their horrible experiences involving men. and a lot would just wish to get even, its human nature to think that way sometimes but i dont encourage it. one of the girls asked, how can u actually hurt a man's pride esp if he betrayed you? one girl said, u can do the same. i said, i dont think that is a smart thing to do. in the first place, the guy would just think, she deserves it, she is a total b*tch anyways. and he knows that there arent too many good guys around. i've read an article online that says, seeing u okay and happy (esp with someone) would hurt a guy most. what is your take on this guys?? im a woman so i cant tell its true or not. wed like to hear it from you.

[sandy2007]

Yup..Be with a guy who's more than your boyfriend and he'll do everything to try win you back (just so he could go around gloating about how he is better)

Don't give in to this type of guy.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Never. Don't ever think of getting even. That kind of solution is temporary and would hurt not only the guy's pride but will stain your dignity as a girl. That's the reality.

Now, if you feel that you've been cheated and want to hurt him back, then move on - i mean move forward and forget we once existed. But that's not an assurance either.

But if the guy did love his ex and was really into her but was tempted, I could say It would really hurt seeing that girl he once owned happy his with his absence. Or worst, happy with someone new, someone better than him.

But if he didn't love her at all, what could/might hurt him? Hmm I think, if the girl will remember the name and the face but not the used-to-be.

[jenibaby003]

, seeing u okay and happy (esp with someone) would hurt a guy most.

best revenge coz it makes him think and regret gitarong ta ka nya, eh di kamo ta 2 ang happy

[EightEqualsD]

hmmm if you think getting a better man would hurt us? then your dead wrong... we would be happier that you'd end up with somebody better cuz they got something that we (the guy that once loved you) could not provide... just my 2 cents... the only way you can hurt a man is making him fall in love with you again and leave him while he is so into you.. hekhek

[butong101]

if a guy dump a girl, sorry u can't hurt him back anymore by being involved w/ a new supposed better man. The fact nga gi-byaan na sa laki c girl wala na syay paki ana nya..hehe

though, i believed, a man could be hurt the most if his girlfriend would cheat on him. Dali rman ka istorya ang laki, kun dili namo then speak for the truth.. most often than not dili mo gukdon sa laki.. hehe

[Baeybe_Bryce]

LOL, that's why my statements are conditional. That's how it is for me.

[yvonne6]

a male co worker said, its really hard to tell how a man is feeling because men are very good with hiding their emotions but truth is, men can be very emotional too but unlike women, we are easy to share our thoughts and feelings. this simply means that a guy maybe too hurt inside but would show to be tough and unaffected. he said, its really very easy to hurt a man's pride but only if the girl means to him, if not, he wouldnt even care

[sugbuana]

looking good, as in yummier & sexier even more, that way revenge is beautiful!

[cornstarch]

comparing to other guys ... weew