My husband naay kabit help...

[Katrina_01]

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I didn't xpect na ma involved again aq husband sa laen na babaye, i forgive him once coz nagkauyab sad sya bfore wen da tyms naa sya restobar but i let him closed & he follows & i tot after dat magusab na sya, his been a good father to our 2 kids but suddenly ds year got a txt from a an unknown person talking bwt da flow of relationship we have, dat tym i have an idea and wen my husband closed his shop i followed him in taxi & saw he pick up da girl, after dat we fyt mlayas q wd my 2 kids, i ask him f he can't tell m da nfo. of da gurl i wont go back in da haws but gahi sya ug ulo q wa q mag xpect na graveh na kaau sya ka inlove sa gurl, d na sya ka let go, mas gpili pa nya ang gurl dan his family. he didn't stayed in our haws for long mos., naguba aq family tungod sa gurl nga wa maghuna2 nga minyo ang guy,& mas mulaban aq bana nya! lagot kaau q sa gurl, but ang gurl d sad palupig gnhan sad sya mkig.away nako,maldita sad kaau, i stopped and let dem free but nglagot q mg-tan.aw sa aq kids na wa na cla father & naguba aq family, i threat her i wil let da skul kick out nya but d pwede daw coz its out of da skul dats da girl told m also, now, im planning to file a case for her ky gnhan q e pa jail sya but huna2 q pwede ba nko sya makasuhan??ug pwede ba nko ma deport aq husband ky inlove na sya sa gurl d q nhan mag happy living pud cla help m guys

[knockout]

ipa agi lang sa legal tanan. consult ug lawyer. aron sad mo tagam imong bana kung maka hibalo sa balaod.

[azinec]

first of all, mas makasabot mi og maka tambag mi og tarong kung sa imong pag narrate sa imong suliran, tarong pud nga inistoryahan.dli text-speak.

karon ang tambag,

u can either file a case of concubinage or violence against women and children. type lang sa google about VAWC law. read about concubinage. if the elements of it are found in your situation, then you have a case.

discuss lang nato ang uban pa nimo pangutana from time to time.

[azinec]

and you can also refer to this thread.

https://www.istorya.net/forums/family...n-ni-nako.html

dako possibility ma merge imo thread ani..

[Katrina_01]

sorry nga murag txt
Anyway he wants a legal separation na but i don't want lang.
I will mess up der lyf, but naa sad q saup sa amu realtionship sa aq bana, naay tyms aq sya gkulata and dey told me deyr planning to file m a case f magsamok pako ky naa video aq husband kato nga tyms na nag violent q nya, but naguba aq family i know d njud mubalik aq husband nko, i know aq ra husband nagsupport nmo but d ko gusto ma affected aq mga kids. i'm planning to close da business of my husband ky its under my name but da problem is i don't know if i can ky mao ra n makasupport sa aq kids. nangita man sya ug mas bata coz im older dan him,hahaii,

[azinec]

legal separation is a civil case, concubinage and acts/omissions defined in the VAWC ( RA9262) are criminal cases. besides, legal separation does not sever the marital ties. kamo duha dli gyapon maka minyo. and you can still be held accountable for adultery/concubinage.

legal separation can only be filed/claimed by the innocent spouse.

[GOSPELofROCH]

strong evidence, pwede mapriso silang duha...dalia mintras init pa, ayaw paabota nga sila mka una nimu

[nijazared]

I suggest you file a case. Do it the legal way.

[monrose29]

hayy ako lang noh... i dont know if apil ne seminar before sa kasal or unsay tawag ana nga seminar..

i dont like the idea of posting it here sa istorya.net i mean wala diay na sa seminar if mag binuang imong bana asa ka pede mo adto? unsa mga agency sa government na pede nmo do-olon and ask og assistance ddto unsa mga basic na evidence na pede nimo gamiton to charge your husband...

unsay right nimo being a wife and all...

unsa diay gamit anang seminar before marriage briefing lang for family planning? nagka daghan naman gud neh case ingon aneh instead of going to police station or what agency sa government kong na-a man gali.. adto na no-on sa radio patambag ni papa joe.. or ari sa istorya.net patambag wala nako gi mali-it ang mga advices deri but to think nga were matured enough we should know our right we should know where to go we should know better para kaning mga badlongon nga bana deli mag abusar...

abusaran man gud dayon labi na ang asawa deli kama-o ka ayo like dont know about legal matters unsay buhaton or unsay mga papers needed and all then ang kaning bana nga suhito aneh mag salig labi nag daghan kapit....

mao nah lo-oy ka ayo mga babaye....

sis...wala ko idea if financially okay pod ba ka cause gasto gyud ka if og justice and makat-on imong bana kuha gyud kag atty. ana... but for a start e report na sa police adto sa women desk pangayo og advice ddto kong asa ka sunod pa adto-on maybe sa dswd or womens right or mo suggest sila adto ka sa PAO office....

[storm_in_cloud9]

Well, I think pwede ni sya i-charge ug adultery/concubinage imo bana and the girl. If gusto ka consult a lawyer to know ur grounds. Then i-kiha dayon para mutagam! I hope andam ka ani nga mga manghitabo. Please protect ur kids from stress aning mga panahona ky masakitan sad na sila towards wats happening sa inyo family. At the end of this please make sure na the court will make ur husband give financial support sa inyuha specially ang mga bata unless naa ka daghan kwarta. Regarding attorney's fee...I think ang prosecution will be ur side so mura public attorney pwede ra. Ampo lng sis tagaan ka strength to endure,you need it most for the kids and urself. Take care.