Confusing and painful stuff...

[ViperRKO]

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There's this girl I really like that likes me back too...there's no problem there...we both want each other, the problem is we still cant be together...unless...she gets into an open relationship with me with the certainty that there will be other girls who are gonna "join" her...its too complicated to explain here...but I just cant settle down right now, and I cant NOT have multiple relationships, but trust me if I could just be with her and her alone, I would. It just really hurts both ways this time, not having her would hurt like crap, but I think having her will hurt just as much coz I think she'd be hurt every single day of the relationship. I'm really considering just keeping her as a friend or not doing anything at all. But I'm gonna ask questions first on if we get into a "relationship". So here they are:

1. How would you feel if you are in a relationship with a guy that you really love but you know, and I mean CLEARLY know you're just "one of his girlfriends" instead of THE ONE?

2. And if you were in this situation, being one of his GFs, but you knew sometime in the future that the guy will actually be able to settle down and have just one and that one just might be you, would that be enough solace?

3. How'd you feel if it wasn't you?

4. If he was the best guy you've ever met in your whole life, the guy you'd die for in a heartbeat, the guy you know you'd want to spend the rest of your life with, would you endure being in a multiple relationship with him before you can actually be in a proper relationship? (I'm not saying I am that guy to her, but I will do everything in my power to be that guy to her if I put her in that damn hurtful situation!)

Man its just one hell of a dilemma right now.

btw...d questions above are just for girls, but if guys wanna answer just post ur opinions if u have any.

[Sol_Itaire]

why would she want to be with you again?

[reigel99]

Confusing.....
in the sense nga naglibog ko kung ang guy ka or ang girl... or both?

edit:
okay after reading word for word... I got the picture...

hmmm kagwapo nimo bro oi... magtinagduha ka man...

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[ViperRKO]

Confusing.....
in the sense nga naglibog ko kung ang guy ka or ang girl... or both?

I'm the guy.

[ViperRKO]

why would she want to be with you again?

Coz she likes me.

[jenny223]

waaaaaaaaaaa..damn you man!why would pursue her if you are still in the relationship??

stop making paasa!! but still i'll answer your every question..


1. i'll feel stupid,yeah stupid..mau sad ka kay kita kag baye na ing'ana..na wala naman nang martyr krn unta..ang mga babae krn, the less you give the more we demand ..

2.NO.you can't assure her enough with that way..if it's me, i wanna be THE ONE or else we're done..

3.i might end up killing myself for being stupid..

4.NO.you're just one fish in the sea..there's a big ocean out there..


see, my advise won't be that helpful coz dili ako ang imong girl,why don't you ask her,confront her and lay all your cards to be able to relieved from your confusion...aight?

[AMpretty1984]

kalami nimo kusion TS wui! unsa ka? sineswerte? sorry ha, pero bsan kung ikaw na ang piiiiiiiiinaaaaakaaaagwaaaapoooooo sa tibuok kalibutan, mao ra jd ni ako isulti nimo...pagpuyo wui!

[nijazared]

TS...how old are you?
you say the girl likes you and you like her...how love have you both liked each other?

I have comments with your questions:
1. How would you feel if you are in a relationship with a guy that you really love but you know, and I mean CLEARLY know you're just "one of his girlfriends" instead of THE ONE?-
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If you really love the girl you will break up with your other GF's and settle down with her.
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2. And if you were in this situation, being one of his GFs, but you knew sometime in the future that the guy will actually be able to settle down and have just one and that one just might be you, would that be enough solace?
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TS, no matter how liberated the world is today. 1+1=0 man jud na when it comes to true love, anything else would be considered as biga biga ra.
3. How'd you feel if it wasn't you?
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Again, if you really love a girl you won't be in a relationship with other girls.
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4. If he was the best guy you've ever met in your whole life, the guy you'd die for in a heartbeat, the guy you know you'd want to spend the rest of your life with, would you endure being in a multiple relationship with him before you can actually be in a proper relationship? (I'm not saying I am that guy to her, but I will do everything in my power to be that guy to her if I put her in that damn hurtful situation!)
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If you are as willing to be a guy that she can settle down with, then you need to get your priorities straightened out. Mind you man, life only gives you a couple of chances to get what you really need and what you really want.

[Klave]

4. If he was the best guy you've ever met in your whole life, the guy you'd die for in a heartbeat, the guy you know you'd want to spend the rest of your life with, would you endure being in a multiple relationship with him before you can actually be in a proper relationship? (I'm not saying I am that guy to her, but I will do everything in my power to be that guy to her if I put her in that damn hurtful situation!)

I would just like to say that this question is so contradictory, you wouldn't get to this question unless you are in fact the best guy. Talk about serious narcissism. Anyways, your dilemma is as deep as your delusions. Not being able to settle down doesn't need you to be in multiple relationships in the first place.

[musicalsuite]

you can't serve two masters at once. better choose. use your head and not your libido.