Heartbroken but coping..

[sandy2007]

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guys..i'm yet in another phase of being heartbroken..this has been ongoing for almost a year now..the thing is, it seems to have intensified right now and though i often laugh it off..at the end of the day..i still cry myself to sleep..

maybe this is what you have to go through to mend a broken heart?..

[Moongoddess28]

Psychological Fact: Emotional pain lasts for roughly twelve minutes. The rest is self inflicted. ♥

[smartmart]

ts: moving on is a matter of choice... please stop treating yourself like that.. you deserve better treatment.. smile, keep your head up and move on!

[sandy2007]

tha's what i've been wondering you know..how come you're all so good at getting over a person..and why can't i seem to move on..i mean i'm living my life..i even seem like the happy person when people see me..but when i'm alone..it's like al these emotions come flooding right in..

maybe i shouldn't be writing this..it all makes me feel so dumb in some way i can't describe..

[smartmart]

no ts.. it is best that you pour it out.. one way to relieve your self of the stress and trying times is to write them down. it wont matter if ppol gives out replies to what you have been writing.. important is that you are able to express them.. do not think that people will think less of you because of what you have written. who knows, you may also get some insights from those who gives out their replies...

we are here to listen/read... smile TS!

[Moongoddess28]

There's no sense belittling yourself. You're not dumb or anything.


TS, its all in the mind.
The brain is powerful, it believes what it wants to believe.♥

[yiennahs]

that's me a few weeks ago. It's hard. It's gonna make you useless and it's gonna eat you alive. Now heres the thing. You won't get over him because you are not ready to get ove him. that simple. You will be crying and pretending it's gonna be okay. You will do that for months and years or until forever. The solution is never found out there. It's in you. You have to let go of everything. Dont even dare to hold on to the pecies coz you will just end up getting all. Believe that you can do it. It will be worth the pain.

[sandy2007]

thing is..i still do love him..that part there i won't deny..(because even if i do..everyone's gonna sense it anyway..hehehe)

it's like this..my mind has fully accepted that it's over between us..and is leading me to explore a new chapter in my life..but my heart is still hurting..even as i type these..it feels like its about ready to burst..

pathetic, am i not?..

[smartmart]

ts: do you know if naa a new gf?

[Moongoddess28]

Then we can't help you with your dilemma.

If you're gonna insist on that, then fine.
If you choose to live in the past, so be it.
Its you yourself who can help you. ♥

Nobody's stopping you to live a happy and healthier life--but yourself.

You.