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    i'm planning to work abroad but my family is totally against it..i'm 24 yrs old..they treat me like a child ghapon..youngest man gud ko..i know they are worried about my safety but at least they should respect my decision, come what may..

    unsa man inyo ma-say ani guys?

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    pili.a jd kng unsa naa sa imo heart... and make sure you wont regret on your decision... dapat imo jd panindigan kani na step sa imo life...

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    Mao jud TS, I've been through the same situation.
    Actually ang ako paglarga sa abroad is my way of switching gears in my life.
    Kalooy sa Ginoo malampuson man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by egeneveve View Post
    pili.a jd kng unsa naa sa imo heart... and make sure you wont regret on your decision... dapat imo jd panindigan kani na step sa imo life...

    True! But still listen to advice

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    unless if you're going to japan or libya, i'd take theirs. you did not tell us where you're going and what sort of work. so i can't really tell you

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    sakpan ang secret mao jud diay. hehe first off, giunsa man diay nimu pag-ingon? nya unsa ang job imu kwaon didto and how is the pay compared to the pay you're receiving right now?

    here's my take: you're the youngest and i'm guessing all your other siblings are married and have their own lives by now. so that leaves you, still living in your parents' house, although not living off their money right? maybe they think you're still not ready to live independently. if you really want this, prove to them that you can live on your own na. don't rebel, the last thing you want is leaving with bad feelings.

    if all you need is their permission, then i think all you have to do is sit them down and tell them that this is what you really want. tell them you think going abroad will make you a better person and you feel that it will lead to a very fruitful career.

    i can tell your parents really love you because kung dili pa, tugtan dayon ka without hesitation, without fear, with what's going on around the world right now. in time, makuha na nya na nimu ilang permission.

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    sakto gyud na imo brad..learn to be independent gyud...hadlok lang na sila but let them understand gyud kay pra pod na imong kaayuhan...ingon pa ganis kantang b.jovi..It's my life. It's now or never. I ain't gonna live forever. I just want to live while I'm alive.... hope it helps

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    hehe! bang! kaw jud cess!

    anyways, im going to work as a medical transcriptionist in a government hospital sa saudi..the pay is bigger than my salary here..luckily, kuyg mi sa ko gf..and dugai naman jd ko gusto muhawa sa balai coz my family haven't changed since my 2nd sister died..God bless her soul..and nangita ra jd kog way para makagawas sa balay..cge nman ko ingon sa ko mom ani since i was in college coz conflict mi sa ako dad, and my mom, although mu-try siya ma-ok mi but mubalik gihapon ang gubot between me and my dad..and mom has a way of manipulating with my decisions, although i'm not against it coz kasabot ko na ako nalang nabilin sa balay..

    i know kuyaw ngadto but i've done my research and i've been asking my friends who are working there and also my cousin..ok raman daw ngadto but follow lang jud mi sa rules...anad napd ko nga naa rko sa balai, ambot lng ani ako uyab kai laagan man jd ni xa..2 yrs rman sa mi ngadto den end contract..

    when my eldest sister knew about this,,grabeh degrading kaayo cya musturya na gamay ra daw ang sweldo para niya..but para nako it's big naman gud and we have to start at the bottom first before mapareha ko niya..she's an advertising sales manager sa Cignal Tv i think, and successful na xa sa iya life..stupid daw kaayo ko kai di ko magthink kai sa tanan dnha jd saudi..lisod nman gd adto lain countries unless u have the $$$..lahi pa jd mi og course sa ako ate..she is in business management while ako nahan ta ko mg-architect or fine arts, gipa-nursing man jd ko kai dali daw mg-abroad (but look asa na ang mga nursing graduates ron?)..naa xai mga friends gpatok nko nya musturya rman cla na lahi ra ang lifestyle ngadto compared diri..im expecting dat naman gd..but wa jd niingon iya mga friends na ayaw adto ngadto, it's still my decision pa daw..pero di jud maminaw ako mom og ate nko..ako dad kai kebs..dugai nman na xa gusto muhawa ko sa balay coz he said so kato last mi nag-awai..

    kasabot man ko nila y worried sila..but it is still my decision and i can take care of myself..di man pud mi mag-laag2x ngadto pd..pure work ra jd para mkawork daun mi sa other countries after sa amo contract..

    reason pd kai if mangayo kog money sa ako mom if hurot na kai kasab-an man ko nya mg-yaw2x..lisod au sa ako part mangayo og kwarta niya kai tihik jd ako mom..wa man gani niya gpa-utang iya sister kai para sa ako cuz mkawork og saudi..nya gi-ingnan pa jd ko na di ko mgpahuwam nila..naluoi jud ko nila ato kai sa gi-ingon sa ko mom..shock jd ko kai ing-ana-on lng niya iya igsuon..

    ako2x ra jd ng-gasto ani tanan pglarga nko sa manila og pag-apply sa agency, ang agency kai naa man sa manila..wa jd tabang ako family nko regarding financial issues..ako ate, ngstay sa manila ron..but di nko mu-stay sa iyaha kai yaw2x napd, masakitan napd ko unsa napd iya ikasulti sa ko decision..kapoi na ba..mao na nhan ko muhawa na jd..palayo lng sa ko nila..2 yrs is enough time for me to cool off from dem..i dont hate my family, it's just dat i don't have any freedom sa balai jd..wa koi voice..dey won't listen and dey don't understand that i want to be independent na ba..

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    Hmmm...quite understandable ngano gusto ka morebelde or ngano gusto ka mobiya and prove something sa imo self and them.

    Dugay na man kaha ni nimo gihuna-huna? You did your research naman kaha? Mura lisod na jud i-change imo mind TS. And kuyog pa jud imo gf? Pwede makatabang imo gf aron dili ka mingawon o pwede sad mahimong problema imo gf inig abot didto. But wala man ko kaila sa imo gf so wala ko kahibawo, ikaw ra jud makatubag ana.

    Pero curious lang ko TS, ngano Saudi man? Aw, mura okay ra man na dinha ron. Basta kung unsa imo desisyon, go. Panindigan mo. But please, don't forget your family ha? (Epal kaayo ko mura kauban sa family, lol).

    Bitaw TS ang ako ra concern is basin naka-affect imo emotion sa imo decision niya magmahay ka later. Mao ra na.But if sure na jud ka. Face it head on!

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    I'm more worried for your gf than you though...

    Just saying, I just heard how aggressive men can be in the Middle East.

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