Sexual immorality in your marriage, will you divorce your partner?

[gingergarlc]

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This is not the second or the third time your caught your wife/husband red handed committing sexual immorality (eg. having s3x with another woman/man).. what will you do? give him/her another chance and do your best to restore your marriage or divorce her/him? (in this case divorce is legalized in your country.) Your have 2 children.

[Blackjellybean27]

whoa! as in red handed, as in the act? and you didn't leave the first time? whoa!

i'd divorce him in an instant. for me, the children should not be made an excuse to stay with a guy like that.. for all you know, they're suffering for you... 'cause in cases like this prolly the children always see you sad and disoriented..
so i'd go ahead, pack my bags, get my children and move on... i don't deserve that kind of disrespect!

[gingergarlc]

whoa! as in red handed, as in the act? and you didn't leave the first time? whoa!

i'd divorce him in an instant. for me, the children should not be made an excuse to stay with a guy like that.. for all you know, they're suffering for you... 'cause in cases like this prolly the children always see you sad and disoriented..
so i'd go ahead, pack my bags, get my children and move on... i don't deserve that kind of disrespect!

yes you caught him/her with someone in the act several times but because you love him/her so much you forgive him/her and continue living w him/her and also because of your two kids its difficult for you to decide whether to stay or leave.

[cromagnon]

when it comes to custody ,
u can support suporting ur kids
or the woman suport the kids alone . --

[ryeaka]

no way! caught in the act na gani na ha... pero before nako sya idivorce putlan sa nako sya ug kuan oie...

[Jbond168]

first offense pa lang, pahawaon dayun nako siya. It's a big downer for the household/home if naay ingon ana nga bad influence. it's downright sick, sick, sick!

[MisterSuave]

OT: Kinsay most probably naay fault basta mag ingon ani ang laki?

[Jbond168]

OT: Kinsay most probably naay fault basta mag ingon ani ang laki?

there is no one constant person who is always at fault. naa gyud na sa upbringing up maturity sa tao. Kung ang bae or laki man wants to constantly satisfy his/her own pleasures/urges regardless of kinsay kuyog,, then katong tao muy at fault.

The bottomline here man gud is the pleasure part should only secondary to love-making. That's why it's meant to be for two married people because there is a deeper meaning to it. It's suppose to be the grand consummation of their love for each other under the grace of God. No matter what, it was meant to be pleasurable so that married couples would continue to pro-create and fill the earth. a lot of immature people who want the pleasure part alone, often should never get married until they get it into their mental conditioning nga marriage is a two way street, a sharing of each other's lives, a freakin UNION.

[r51d3r19]

dumot jud ang show!! for life!

[r3roble]

if that's all the facts there is, then i would choose divorce..