Parents: Do you dictate whom your son/daughter falls in love with?

[yonnis1980]

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this is a very real incident i overheard from a couple.

there was a chic in front of us, pretty, sexy and looked sophisticated.

we were seated in the customer's lounge. the husband appeared cheerful but seriously asked his wife who was sitting beside him, "kung kana babayhana ang magustuhan ni dodong, ok ra ka?" the husband was obviously referring to the pretty girl at the counter ahead of us kay iya man gi point sa iya simod.

the wife was silent for a long while. she must have been performing her own assessment of the girl.

then the wife said, "lain man nang bayhana na! dili na mabilin ug balay. magsunodsunod ra si dodong ana kung mahitabo nga sila".

are mothers always like that?

[THE KID]

As if...............ahahahhahhahahhah

[necrotic freak]

parents are to give guidance to their children.. not to act as a dictator..

my wife jokingly tell our kids (2 boys) kung ang inyo gani dalhon diri sa balay bati ug nawng nga babae ako jud ingnon "oi dai pauli didtos inyo"

[reginakrys]

sounds very judgmental.. but maybe pud nagminaro ang wife ug answer.. maybe she answered like that para mu send ug signal sa bana nga dli kasaligan ang mga girls like those.. para ma discourage ang bana nga mangitag ingon ato.. lols

but to answer the question, of course not.

[tessF]

yes judgemental ra kaau sya. or basin dli sad ka gwapohan iya anak mao cge sunod2 kay gwapa ang girl

[yonnis1980]

I know of mothers who tell their daughters to marry foreigners so they have a prosperous life ever after!

[nate_austin]

we are not to dictate our children who to marry but we guide them, mao man jd role sa parents.

[joziliciousbelle]

Dli cya mo judge by his or her appearance oie, who knows mao di tong bayhana ang tig bantay and masaligan jud ug bilin sa ila. As for the question, it depends as long as tarong and responsible siya.

[yonnis1980]

parents are to give guidance to their children.. not to act as a dictator..

my wife jokingly tell our kids (2 boys) kung ang inyo gani dalhon diri sa balay bati ug nawng nga babae ako jud ingnon "oi dai pauli didtos inyo"

ingon ana akong mama.........but she was not joking about it.