The secret of staying in love...

[ashira]

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The secret of staying in love is learning how to make love all the time..

The Seven E's will develop over time in a truly healthy and growing relationship. Yet love thrives only under certain conditions necessary for love to grow.

1. Energy... Truly being in love will energize you physically, mentally, and emotionally.

2. Enthusiasam... A healthy relationship creates a healthy and enthusiastic attitude toward life.

3. Excitement and Optimism for the future... When you are happy and in love today,you look forward to tomorrow with excitement.

4. Esteem and Self-confidence... A good relationship will support you in feeling high self steem.

5. Emotional Generosity... When you feel loved, it is easy to share that fulness of heart with those around you, and to become very loving and giving.

6. Ease in being Oneself... When a relationship is supportive, you will find it easy to be yourself around your prtner, your friends and in all circumstances.

7. Emotional Relaxation... When you feel well loved, your whole being relaxes, filling you with a deep sense of peace of heart and mind.

[ashira]

Cherish your wife.......Respect your husband

The core emotional need of a woman is to be cherished. This is the husband's number one responsibility. That means making her feel loved and appreciated, that she's your number one priority.

A man's core emotional need is to feel respected by his wife. When he comes home, he wants to feel that there is at least one person in the world who thinks he's got what it takes. That means getting off the phone when he walks in the door.

[ashira]

Treat each other like good friends......

Under the marriage canopy one of the seven blessings given to the bride and groom is that they should become "beloved friends."

The hallmark of friendship is that each person validates and respects the other person's feelings and needs. Validation means: What's important to you is important to me. It's a key way to make your spouse feel loved.

[EightEqualsD]

Na a pay lain kulang na E

Estoryaheeee heheh or tell your partner cheesy stuff hekhek

[ashira]

thanks ooopinkgurlooo and LeeLeepot...for liking the seven E's.

[ashira]

Na a pay lain kulang na E

Estoryaheeee heheh or tell your partner cheesy stuff hekhek

hehehehhe..thanks EightEqualsD...

[ashira]

Remember the Four Golden Words:

Listen, Compromise,Repair and Gratitude

Agree to keep one basic rule at the beginning of your marriage: No matter how upset you are, never launch a verbal attack. Fighting with insults only makes problems worse and erodes the relationship. Instead, implement the four golden words:

Listening: It's essential for working together and solving problems. Allow your spouse to speak without interruption and then repeat what has just been said. This reassures your spouse that he or she was heard.

Compromise: Strive to solve problems where both of you are happy with the solution. Neither one should feel coerced into accepting the other person's point of view.

Repair: When you hurt each other emotionally, repair the breakdown and remove the lingering feelings of anger and resentment. Aim for 100% reconciliation. A little resentment multiplied 50 times can create a wall of bitterness.

Gratitude: You can never say thank you enough to your spouse. Try to notice everything your spouse does for you and acknowledge it with sincere gratitude.

[ashira]

thanks aela for liking the Four Golden Words....

[ashira]

Give yourself completely and unconditionally. Don't put conditions on your love.

[davidsky]

mao na gyud na tanan hehe