How to Talk to Women Basics: She Gives Me Cold Answers from the 247attractiveman.com

[mik0y]

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Hey guys, this is a golden post from the Fil-Am dating guru, Troy Dizon.

He's not a PUA, by the way.

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Here’s a conversation basics post for y’all who want to grasp how to get decent at talking to women.

Majority of guys have problems getting their foot on the door especially in carrying conversations past the 5 minute mark with a woman. If you missed out on my past post on How to Flow Into a Conversation just CLICK HERE to catch up.

Now we’re very lucky that we have Mastermind Email Readers who regularly send us mailbag questions to answer. To send me mailbag questions just email me at troy@247attractiveman.com

So without further ado, it’s Mailbag Time, fellas.

I was asked by one of our Mastermind email readers from Singapore to help him on his conversations with women. He was nice enough to send me transcripts of the conversations to show that he wasn’t just theoretical in the question. The guy actually tried stuff out. Kudos to you.

Now on his transcripts the main problem was that whenever he would ask questions to get to know the girl better, she would give him cold answers most of the time.

If this happens to you at all, or it occurs a lot that you don’t know how to get around it, keep reading:

First, the problem: PURSUING QUESTIONS

This is why I don’t like the numbers game of picking up women, which I’ve been reiterating over and over on my blog. Playing the numbers game puts you in a TERRIBLY WEAK POSITION OF BEING THE CHASER. Once you’ve accepted the fact that you’re going to take “whatever you can get” and run the numbers, its over for you because you’ll fall into needy pursuing.
Most guys who run this approach to women usually fall into the basic trap of asking too many questions without giving any sort of information about themselves that the woman would probably take interest to.

See here’s the thing: Women won’t open up UNLESS YOU open up.

Therefore, to get to know someone better you have to first make them know YOU better. That’s where I throw little bits, statements, and ICF Stories about myself. For more on getting excellent at story telling without being fake, check out our ICF Series.

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For me, I DON’T QUIT on talking about myself until she relates back to me. Once that happens and I’ve achieved that threshold of interest I start shutting up a bit to listen to her and get to know her.

ONLY THEN will I ask questions and as expected she’ll gladly answer them because there’s a PREMISE: which is the connection we had in the beginning parts of the conversation.

Look, women aren’t stupid. Especially women of ascending quality (notice I didn’t say beauty, because beauty is only skin deep and we’re looking for a decent amount of looks but also quality)….which brings me to my next point:
Women of ascending quality KNOW why you talked to them. They know why you’re asking pursuing questions and since you’re just one of the hundreds of guys doing that, she just will turn cold and not respond.

It’s not worth responding to because she’ll get YET ANOTHER QUESTION AFTER THAT. Annoying.

So, give more of you and she’ll give more of her. Its that simple. Drill that in your heads guys. Hope this helps you on your convos. Again, a lot of our training tools to sharpen that are on our COC Drills Pack which has 12 247 AM Drills to sharpen your verbal, nonverbal, and conveyance skills.

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[mik0y]

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