i like my officemate...

[Blackjellybean27]

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hey guys!

there's this guy at work who's so sweet. as in super sweet jud ni sya nako. he compliments me, listens to me... etc etc... complete opposite sa bf ko. don't worry kahibaw jud ko sa limits ko. i'm not gonna make patol sa officemate ko, even though i know he likes me a lot. you know what i'm trying to tell people here, DO NOT TAKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR BOYFRIEND FOR GRANTED. usahay man gud, feel nato na okay lang not to compliment or be sweet to your respective partners k you think he or she will always be there for you.. well maau unta kng pareho cla nako noh, na although i like this guy i lot, i will never ever cheat on my boyfriend...

i admit usahay sapoton ko sa lack of attention.. well, i'm a naturally sweet person and grabe jud ko ka mag give attention to my bf... and you know there are always temptations galore baya. but i'm deeply committed and it will remain that way. but whewwwww! honestly, nahan unta ko my guy is as sweet as this officemate. hmmm how do i tell my bf, without making him feel like im comparing him...?

[andro_jose]

Unsa man diay reason ngano imo gi-uyab imo bf? He must've swept you of your feet for you to agree to be on a relationship with him. Or is it that he has changed? Usahay, istorya raman gud kulang. Maski bya unsa mi ka maldito, pag amo na gf mu istorya namo, maminaw sad bya mi. So talk to your bf. Tell him how you feel.

[Blackjellybean27]

well, he's a gentleman... i guess you can say na he changed. he used to compliment me a lot.. aside from that, sweet pod gamay but not to the next level. okey ra unta ma dala ra. feel man gud nako lately he's taking me for granted again. i guess usahay mag salig k he knows how in love i am with him. hehe. mao ra na. actually wala man ko ka realize na kulang na diay ko sa attention until this guy comes along and showers me with super extra attention. so mao na realize ko i miss my boyfriend... the old him

[andro_jose]

Ang pangutana karon, ikaw wa ba ka ni usab sa imo pagtagad sa imo bf? Istorya ra man kulang ninyo. Kana imo office mate, ni abot na siya sa imo life para i-remind ka na dapat honest ka sa imo bf. Kung feel nimo neglected na ka niya, ingna siya. Laki bya na, rational kaayo na ug hunahuna. No offense ha, pero normally kamo mga girls emotional ra kaayo mu usahay.

[Blackjellybean27]

nope! i can say wa jud ko pagkukulang sa bf ko. and i agree highly emotional jud mga women usahay. and yes, thank goodness, i remain loyal to my bf. sometimes noh, instead of complimenting me or hugging me or being sweet in general k bati pa jud ang mu gawas from him. and i told him that already. i told him "ikaw noh. d na ka gani mu compliment, bati pa jud ang sulti nimo..." cry2x dayon ko k na hurt ko. LOLz. pero g hug man ko niya dayon k sympre nag cry2x baya. ngeee, point ko is.. dapat pa diay ko mag cry2x para pansinon? hehe.

[andro_jose]

Effective jud kayo na sa amo mga laki ang luha ninyo mga bae. Pagmuhilak na gani ang bae, wala na dayon. Istoryaha lang lagi imo uyab. Mao ra jud na. Kana gud heart-to-heart na talk. Hehehe. Usahay kay magsalig ra jud bya mi. Mao dapat open jud ang comunication pag uyab para way ma blame later on.

[theBLUR]

yep, try to talk to him. communication is the key to any good relationship

[Blackjellybean27]

LOLz. wla man ko naghilak k para pa effect niya. na frustrate lang jud ko that day i think.
thanks for the advise guys.
and sometimes i find it hard to do mga heart to heart talk k murag OA ra kaau. hehe. or rather my bf baya doesnt like that much drama. hehe. basin ingon na sad sya na amards lageh ko. hmmmp!

[THE KID]

pariha ni sa akong x.....pag buwag namu...sila daun sa iyang officemate...good for them...hahaah

[yiennahs]

i like my officemates too, they are the best )