Panakip butas ba or hindi

[vorsillion]

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Me and my exgf broke up a month ago. She told me on the break up that we should set each other free(reasons are possitive, i wont state anyway because it makes the story long). I believe that I moved on. We are classmates by the way. I will be graduating this coming march and she will be graduating on October. Here's the situation.

Last few days ago, I met my childhood friend in our village. Although we say hi to each other sometimes because when I go to school, I will be able to see her, though she doesn't go out a lot. I asked for her number so that we can jam more and she did. An unexpected twist began. I began interested with her and same goes for her to me. We started texting a lot days after that although we were busy in life. Then on valentines day, we had a date. It was fun and we have pictures as a remembrance. We enjoy each other's company. Then, yesterday, we went to the mall and take pictures again. We had fun doing wacky stuff like posing infront of a photo booth like we are kids hahaha! The moment I remember it, I laugh a lot. Damn I missed my childhood days. Anyway, lets get back on track. Then after going to the mall, we went to church. Some of my friends saw us and signal things like 'is she my new girl" or something like that. I just gave them a smile. That night, we texted each other and I was looking at our photos which are uploaded in facebook privately where both of us can see and some our being printed out, some are even in my wallet, I started thinking that "panakip butas" ba ito? I mean as far as I know, "panakip butas" is having another affair quickly with an intention of hurting the other right? But, I dont have that intention. I like her a lot and I enjoy her company and so does she. She even made our picture, which is the cutest and romantic, her profile picture in facebook. I told her that she looked good especially her smile and she replied the same positive way. I asked myself if I will be making our "MU" relationship loud like I will do the same way as making one of our pictures a primary photo in facebook. But, I am also thinking about the gossips. We filipinos are fond in doing that db? I dont know what kind of situation I am into. So, panakip butas ba ito? I am asking as an honest forumer hehehe

Oh and one more thing, she will be my escort on our upcoming ringhop... db? chismis yan db?

[mlnsgbn]

depende sa imo pagsabot

[Leith Dhiren]

its all up to you bro

[Turbohectic]

No it's not if you really like her..
Goodluck Kiddo!!

[bowee]

no i think not...

ask yourself if you have a feeling for her jud...


panakip butas is a colloquial filipino term for someone who is using someone without intention of really expressing a deep sense of love to that someone.. just for the sake lang... no ifs and buts..

I agree on the interpretations here on some.. the question can be thrown back at you.. so what's the real score bro? do you have feelings for her sad? As far as I know, your over with your girl.. i mean your ex that is... so the question I will throw at you is that.. are you really over with your ex? do you think of her most of the time still, while going out with your new one?

if your thinking still of your past, while your going out with your neighbor.. then I think your definitely doing a PANAKIP BUTAS to your new one...

But if your not aware of it or is not thinking often anymore of your past... and more of thinking your new one na.. then your not doing the PANAKIP BUTAS and instead have slowly moved on already...

my point lang...

[vorsillion]

no i think not...

ask yourself if you have a feeling for her jud...


panakip butas is a colloquial filipino term for someone who is using someone without intention of really expressing a deep sense of love to that someone.. just for the sake lang... no ifs and buts..

I agree on the interpretations here on some.. the question can be thrown back at you.. so what's the real score bro? do you have feelings for her sad? As far as I know, your over with your girl.. i mean your ex that is... so the question I will throw at you is that.. are you really over with your ex? do you think of her most of the time still, while going out with your new one?

if your thinking still of your past, while your going out with your neighbor.. then I think your definitely doing a PANAKIP BUTAS to your new one...

But if your not aware of it or is not thinking often anymore of your past... and more of thinking your new one na.. then your not doing the PANAKIP BUTAS and instead have slowly moved on already...

my point lang...

yeah i am and i dont think of her anymore when I'm with my new one... but im worried about the gossips... even you guys hated the so called "chismis" db? haha

[bowee]

are you particular of what people talk about you?

for me lang bro sa.. DONT MIND IT!... people are born to be sarcastically nosy and critics to other people than themselves..

as long as your not stealing or doing illegal things, then your okay... people tallks about gossips.. some people live and thrive on gossips.. he'll even Jesus was gossip before... did he mind? No none at all..

mao nga sa imoha.. as long as your not doing anything to offend or hurt other people, then do what you want...

Damn if you do.. Damn if you don't.. as long as happy ka.. go for it.. no regrets in anything...

[catch]

Prolong the enjoyment/courtship (if it applies to you) and see if she's for you.

[eamarac]

i'm unfortunately on this kind of situation, a lot of good friends are saying bad things about us about the relationship but i just mute them and try not to be that affected because they don't really know what were going through. I am happy with him and i hope he's happy with me too and i love him and he does too, well that's all that matter as of now..

[EightEqualsD]

i think di na cya panakipbutas ky base on your post wala man kaayu ka nagmention sa imung ex or about being sad and alone. ana ra man gd na.. as the door closes a window opens hahaha