I'm confused!

[angelice]

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i have this bf, we "were" in love until there' this guy who swept me off my feet.. but i gave him up anyway because i thought it would be unfair for my first guy, now im torn, not between the two of them but by myself, should i give my first guy up and focus on my career or should i go give it a try still? take note, he is a good guy and he used to be the perfect guy for me, now i don't know... i'm lost!

[neishan731]

just follow wat u think mybe best for u....and ur heart...

[krizz]

be true to yourself...

[deadlock]

bya-e to oi wla man to pulos sa imo lyf . samok2x ra man to cya sa imo carreer kay seloso kaayo then shiety pagyud ug attitude ug salary yuks.......hehehehe


btaw sa tinood love kay ka ato niya sure ko....... mao na cge cya pangita uglain uyabon kay dli niya ma take nga nawala ka niya. tabangi to cya kay iya job na daot na gyud maayo wla na cya kabalo unsa iya buhaton para maka compete ug balik sa world of achievers. boom naman ka sa imo job, ayaw nalang palabii. tabangi nalang cya para mosaka ugbalik...........Good Luck to both of you......

Ar6

[ChaosOrb]

i have this bf, we "were" in love until there' this guy who swept me off my feet.. but i gave him up anyway because i thought it would be unfair for my first guy, now im torn, not between the two of them but by myself, should i give my first guy up and focus on my career or should i go give it a try still? take note, he is a good guy and he used to be the perfect guy for me, now i don't know... i'm lost!

this is a very difficult situation, though some may consider it easy but actually it's better said than done. To tell you honestly, angelice we have the same situation, but im in the other side of the coin.

My gf gave me up, for the same reason as you, to focus on career. Reading your dilemma, though im recovering from this kind of situation it made my heart bleed again. Coz I was the one left behind. I was the perfect guy in your situation. All I can do is offer my deepest sympathy to the guy you left behind.

If you still love your guy, even just a little, try to work things out. If it doesnt work out, then that's the time to let him go. If you are the type of woman who prioritize's career over love, then pursue your dream, but what was once yours will now be LOST, your GUY who loves you so much. He will be grieving for his LOSS, and when recovers he will not be looking back. The saying "Kung kita jud ang magdayon, kita jud! Bisan magbulag ta" - is a half-truth argument. Coz you see, if you try to look at it, you don't fall out of love with someone you share your life with if not by choice, it your choice to stop loving him and pursue your dream over him.

What if you have focused on you career, and achieved your dreams in life and later you've realized that you still love your first guy. What will you do? Will you go back to him? What if when you go back, he is happy in his life with another woman who is more loving/honest/caring than you? I know it will hurt you, and later on you will regret that you made him your last priorities in life. Once again, we can say "Sa ulahi ra ang pagmahay".

You see, every dream you achieved has a great value/impact in our lives, but what's the purpose of your dreams if it's not worth sharing with your other half. All I can say is this, think it through a million times, work it out if possible, and give it another try. Make him your number 1 priority if you are his! Share your dreams with him, and nothing is more fulfilling than achieving your dreams in life together.

[sting6ph]

basically, I have to tell from another side of the story...

sometime ago, I was the "otherguy"...I used to see this girl who already have a bf...naturally cause his bf is in another part of the philippines, we tend then to be together most of the time...

we go out together, watch movie together (exclusive ha?)..I even wait for her to go out of her office so that we can go home together...and when she's alone in her apartment...she call's me so that we could chat till she goes to sleep...

we're everything except she's not mine..

I wanted to but I cannot...

for the reason that I really like this girl that his boyfriend is way better...though I don't know him personally, its just that breaking their relationship because I swept off her feet is not good...

hope my short story helps.

[eljy]

Gosh look what love do? Ako sad gbulagan ako bf lahi noon ang reason as n mabaw, he said he is not the right guy for me im too kind daw and very clean for him. Now he is asking 4 a second chance, though im hurting inside for being dumped i am willing to take another risk because i just simply fell that i still love him, i love nobody but him, my heart only aches for him, i know im nothing but a foolish girl, who cares!, if again the relationship fails i am ready to accept and undergo again the healing process. If you feel same why not take the second chance, risking your heart again is not your loss but it will make you stronger and will make your even stronger. Don't regrets of things you have done but rather those you havent.

[battouter]

experience is da best titser... live and learn lang gud...

nya ayaw tuo anang hart nimo pirmi. girl... u gotta use ur head... ya herd?!?!? hehe
sometimes man gud, hanap2x mana imo huna2x ug kasing2x...
kun si ernie baron pa imo pangutan-on.... wether-wether lang yan....

enjoy ur lyf oizzzz...

[affable_chinky]

jus be fair in making ur decision.. have u heard the song karma?.. try to put urself the guy's situation..

[i][i]Weren't you the one that said, that you don't want me anymore.
And how you need your space, and give the keys back to your door.
And how I cried and tried and tried to make you stay with me.
But still you said that love was gone, and that I had to leave.
Now you, talkin bout a family
Now you, sayin I complete your dream
Now you, sayin I'm your everything
You confusin me
What you say to me
Don't play with me
Don't play with me.
Cause what goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
Now who's cryin, desirin to come back to me
What goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
Now who's cryin, desirin to come back
I remember when
I was sittin home alone
Waitin for you
Til 3 o'clock in the morn
And when you came home, you'd always have some sorry excuse.
And explainin to me, like I'm just some kinda fool
I sacrifice the things I want to and do things for you
But when it's time to do for me, you never come through
Now you, wanna be a bond of me (eyyy)
Now you, have so much to say to me (heyy)
Now you, wanna make time for me
What you do to me.
You confusin me
Don't play with me
Don't play with me.
Cause what goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
Now who's cryin, desirin to come back to me
What goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
Now who's cryin, desirin to come back
I remember when
I was sittin home alone
Waitin for you
Til 3 o'clock in the morn
Night after night
Knowin sumthing goin on
Wasn't home befo me
You was,you was gone
Lord knows it wasn't easy, but believe me.
Never thought you'd be the one that would deceived me.
And never do wha u was supposed to do
No need to hose me fool, cause I'm ova you
Cause what goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
Now who's cryin, desirin to come back to me
What goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
Gotta stop tryin, to come back to me
What goes around, comes around.
What goes up, must come down.
It's called Karma baby.
And it goes around.
What goes around, comes around,
What goes up, must comes down,
Now who's cryin, desirin to come back to me

[P-Chan]

do you still love him? does he loves you? give it time to think it through.. is it fair? does he know?...