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[unhappy always]

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please help me guys... naa koy problema sa akong boyfriend... wa ko kasabot sa akong self.. nganu cge kog pangita niya... usa ana kana jud manglaag me bongga kaau sa tanan... mo gasto kog dako... dili gani ko mo kwenta sa kadako sa gasto basta ma happy lang ko... then tungod sa cge kog pangita niya kay mag. away na hinuoon me kay siya sad di mo sugot kay ang reasons iyang family between me( kay cge daw me kita! then kung masakit daw kay pamilya daun ) maglagot gani ko kay y man cge siya salig sa ginikanan na tiguwang naman siya.. nana siya buot ( iyang edad kay 24 na coming 25 ) mag away me iya kung ingnan na maBUWAG name.. iya kung hadlokon... then mao bya na pinakaworst na di ko ganahn mkadungog... naa to 1 day nasakpan nako siya nagmake siya new account sa fs, fb and yahoomail.. which is super sakit kaau sa tanan.. nakakita ko message sa fs sa mga girls, tx2 sila... to think nawala akong trust niya but still pilit pa kaau ko niya.,..until now wala pa niya ma cope up unsaon pagbalik ang trust nako niya mas ni samot og ka worst kay tungod sa mga situation....then pag valentines... grabeh!!! gipang andaman nako... nagpareserved jud kog hotel, nangadto me disco bar.. gikan jud siya duty so ga duty siya 8am to 9pm... after ana gakita me to celebrate ang sa valentines.. i tot gasabot name na overnight me kay nkabayad na jud ko sa hotel jud... then tungod sa wala siya naka pananghid tarong sa iyang mama og papa niuli siya kadlawon kay mahadlok siya... then sayang gani kay nkaorder na sad ko para breakfast namo..nindot gani akong plano sa tanan but unhappy ko kay niuli siya dili lang siya maghunahuna nako.. may lang siya mag hunahuna sa lain taw.. like ang reason daw y iya na lang gidawat ang mo work ana 8-7pm kay maikog daw siya sa iyang kauban... then dili siya maikog nako...

guys help me guys unsa akong buhaton... daghan pa kaau mga kasakit.. kana lang ang update... willing ko maminaw sa inyong mga tambag.. salamt

[bowee]

hmm.. something is fishy with your bf...

I maybe wrong pero katong niuli sya kay "wala siya kapananghid tarong sa iyang mama ug papa" IS SO LAME i could swear for once that he is playing another fire on you... Playing fire means he has another relationship with another girl.. Only a Ex player knows a player, and I could swear that if I was in your bf's shoes, this would be the same alibi I would give you.. just to dish you out of the way (and ultimately I could find time to meet that other girl)

Judging on all accounts.. your the one who is really falling deep down for this guy.. and not him on you... By all reasons as well, I can sense your a clingie and more or less, a possessive type of lover... and would do all and everything for the person you love most... just for him to be happy on you..

You got to wake up and smell the coffee on this sis, Your Bf might be two-timing you already... Let him loose and find out if he'll find ways to come back to you...

I think the guy might be suffocated already on your reins on him and decided to just entertain another girl.. someone who he can just be with.. without any pretentions at all...

My take? simple.. Ignore and don't try to attempt to communicate with him sa.. examine everything.. You should not be a martyr you know.. you have done almost everything and yet the guy is unappreciative of your efforts.. you need to love yourself more sa, before you can love him in return..

Also, try not to give attention to him and instead give attention more to yourself.. In the end, if this bf of yours, really loves you jud??

he will make sacrifices for you... just like what you did for him...

Give and take lang sis.. Cheerup!

[yvonne6]

question, kahibalo ba ang parents sa guy nga uyab mo? open ba ang inyong relationship sa ilaha? ikaw ba ang type sa gf nga boto ang family sa lalaki? kung mag 24 na siya and working, then the parents know nga uyab mo, i think he can spend the whole day on valentines day with you. ako lang girl, distance yourself, agwantaha jud. men love to chase. di mana sila ganahan ug pilit kaau ilang gf nila. kabalo kag nganong mabuang ang mga guys sa liberated nga girls, its because this girls are the type nga halos di gani mo check sa lalaki, and men hated that. gusto nila sila lang atong atensyonan but if we become too clingy, they dont like it aswell. hatagi pud ug gamayng worth imong self. ga abusar imong bf. been there done that

[icon_king]

naa ni lain imu uyab or basin menyo nani siya. ginikanan ra ang ipahid. unless ug mu adto ka sa ilaha unya makipag ila ila ka. Actually if you are not happy you can always find another one. Actually muabot raman gyud ang panahon para sa imuha. bati kaayo na kanang ikaw ang mag apas. tsk tsk. or simply he is just playing with you.

[palanggako123]

naa gyud ni laen uyab..klaru lang..making excuses to get rid of you..reality bites pero you have to face and deal with it..try to assess urself sa..it's easy for us to say nga u should let him go..i know sakit kaau coz he makes u happy..but come to think of it,is he happy being with u? sometimes we make sacrifices and eventually muabot ang time kataw-an ra ni nmu imung kaagi karon..

[unhappy always]

question, kahibalo ba ang parents sa guy nga uyab mo? open ba ang inyong relationship sa ilaha? ikaw ba ang type sa gf nga boto ang family sa lalaki? kung mag 24 na siya and working, then the parents know nga uyab mo, i think he can spend the whole day on valentines day with you. ako lang girl, distance yourself, agwantaha jud. men love to chase. di mana sila ganahan ug pilit kaau ilang gf nila. kabalo kag nganong mabuang ang mga guys sa liberated nga girls, its because this girls are the type nga halos di gani mo check sa lalaki, and men hated that. gusto nila sila lang atong atensyonan but if we become too clingy, they dont like it aswell. hatagi pud ug gamayng worth imong self. ga abusar imong bf. been there done that

yes kabaw iyang parents as well akong parents... 5 years na me coming 6 years... ga complicated na jud kaau me sa tanan.... lagi nka bantay sad ko sa akong self na super dikit nako niya need time nako sa akong self...

[unhappy always]

guys thank you kaau sa tanan ninyo...may gani naa ni na forum kay naa koy magawsan sa akong gibati og naay mo advice nako... come to think gani dili gani siya ka make plans para sa among laag.. mag agad pa siya nako... mura ako tanan decision bah.. mas nice mana ang laki jud mo decision... need space sa jud ko sa akong self,.. wala lang gani ko ka buy things for myself kay i tigom nako for our date...

[d!orj]

hmm,,give yourself a break,,grabe sad mga reasons sa u uyab uie,,pila rman pag tawag sa ya parents nanghid na nagkuyog mu,,kabalo man tah n u fam na uyab mu,,tsk,,,he's making lame excuses to get rid of you,,btaw some guys li ganahan na over ra kaayo ka pilit ang girls,,matuok man gud cla,,they also need time para sa la self same thing ra gud sad sa girls,,pero sa imu lang gtel na nagmake sya lain accounts dili njud nah sakto,,i think naghimu nanah xag milagro,,,hmm
ika nga too much love will kill you,,before dat happens give time for yourself,,yaw cge focus sa u uyab,,u have life naa pud xa,, sort things out with him,,ask him if unsa jud,,aron maklaro na bah,,i knoe sakit coz dugai namu,,pero mas better man gud u'l know the truth kysa cge nlng ka pa blind2 and buangon nyah,,mas mai ng makabaw naka wat jud kysa mag antos ka prmi,,kpoe baya sakit sad,,

[ayki]

your boyfriend is acting like the "girl" in the relationship. when i was reading through your post, i had to re-read to make sure that you are talking about your boyfriend. i find it awkward how he would threaten to break up with you for some silly reason. it seems like he is only taking advantage of you & i think it's not mainly his fault. i think you spoiled him..that's why he's like that. you should calm down a bit when it comes to giving him almost everything.. make him WANT it.. make him WANT you... rather than give it to him all the time, even though he didn't ask for it.

[icon_king]

guys thank you kaau sa tanan ninyo...may gani naa ni na forum kay naa koy magawsan sa akong gibati og naay mo advice nako... come to think gani dili gani siya ka make plans para sa among laag.. mag agad pa siya nako... mura ako tanan decision bah.. mas nice mana ang laki jud mo decision... need space sa jud ko sa akong self,.. wala lang gani ko ka buy things for myself kay i tigom nako for our date...

you are used and abused. mao ra gyud na. imu na god tanan unya u dont deserve the credit. tsk tsk