tabangi ko ninyo sa ako suliran

[maran]

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i just broke up with my 11 years bf, dn i met a man here in abroad pilipino, i told him everything na kasakit na aq na feel sa aq xbf, dn he become my advicer unsaon nako oag recover niya, later on nagpakita ug mga signs na ganahan cya,dn few days after nagkakami, smooth au amo relasyun kay lagi inlove daw cya nko, dn aq later on i realize na fall inlove nko niya, dunay nahitabu namo, but still no changes ang feeling, as he said mura daw kaila na me sa una pa, everyday nice au kay ingun cya excited cya nko maka kita everyday even sa work, dn kalit lng wala na pakita, f z work ga likay na,may lng dili me pareha ug department, 3 days after la gehapun cya paramdam mao nag find ko way y nag-ing ani cya, kung buot huna-2 iya house one block away ra z amo house, even fon pwede ra motawag, but galikay cya nko, he dosnt txt back, or even answer my col, i used ader fon number tubag cya but wen he knows ako to iya gibutang,dn ga txt cya na buwag nlng daw me kay dili cya ridy z ako style, ask ko y dili na da kinahanglan mo explain kay ang ending mao ra gihapun makigbuwag cya, dn ingun pa cya dili pa cya ridy sa relasyun but imagine 40 y.o na guy , 5 years la uyab mo ingun ug ing-ana, dn dili pa kabuwag in front of u or bsan z fon man lng, gipili pa ang txt, dn ingun ko nahan ko nice ato closure kung mao na imo gusto kay im sure mag kita ta sa work, ingun cya oki ra daw niya dili me magtagad sa work basta mao na daw na iya final decision, hahayyy sakit but wala ko mahimo, but kalibog ko wat if magkita me unsa man ako buhatun mo smile, e ignore nlng cguro sah, ahak oi mao lagi ni dili ko nahan na ako ma uyab duol nko kay faet kung magbuwag esp ani walay hinungdan mura man ge pag tripan ko or duna cya nakegpustaan ba nuon.....

[cilpen]

wow.....you really have a bad love life....faet....
wala nakay mabuhat ana final naman kaha yaha desisyon....All you have to do is to move on.... life must go on.... in order to forget him make your self bz...i know lisod coz kaworkmate ramu then nana pa gyud nahitabo ninyo....but i know you can do it.....just enjoy little things.....focus on something na dili makapasakit nimo...coz i felt the same way with you...i make my self bz sa work then i join in a band then i spend lot of time with my family and everything went well...wala nako nagkasakit wala nako naghuna-huna sakong past....just move on.....

[cherie]

minyo na ang lalaki or kundili naa pangasaw-onon sa pinas. mao likay siya b4 naa mahitabo ninyo. let's say magka baby mo.

[Chedot]

TS: IMO, westernize na guro siya. kahibawo man ka diha sa gawas. Just my opinion.

[Asahi]

it could be naa xia gender problem dear..... cguro nag identity crisis ba kaha.... ayaw na lang ipamugos imong self niya. ayaw ipakaubos imong kaugalingon ngadto niya...... wad-a xia sa imong system.... lisud pero ngadto2x u can do it.... time will heal.. give time, time matod pa..

[rAiNe_]

T/S naa naa man ka existing issue ani di bah? pareha ra japon ni

https://www.istorya.net/forums/love-i...saon-ko-n.html

[*sludge*]

maybe coitus ra iyang gi apas.. he change when "something" happened between you and him, right?

[rheo08]

i just broke up with my 11 years bf, dn i met a man here in abroad pilipino, i told him everything na kasakit na aq na feel sa aq xbf, dn he become my advicer unsaon nako oag recover niya, later on nagpakita ug mga signs na ganahan cya,dn few days after nagkakami, smooth au amo relasyun kay lagi inlove daw cya nko, dn aq later on i realize na fall inlove nko niya, dunay nahitabu namo, but still no changes ang feeling, as he said mura daw kaila na me sa una pa, everyday nice au kay ingun cya excited cya nko maka kita everyday even sa work, dn kalit lng wala na pakita, f z work ga likay na,may lng dili me pareha ug department, 3 days after la gehapun cya paramdam mao nag find ko way y nag-ing ani cya, kung buot huna-2 iya house one block away ra z amo house, even fon pwede ra motawag, but galikay cya nko, he dosnt txt back, or even answer my col, i used ader fon number tubag cya but wen he knows ako to iya gibutang,dn ga txt cya na buwag nlng daw me kay dili cya ridy z ako style, ask ko y dili na da kinahanglan mo explain kay ang ending mao ra gihapun makigbuwag cya, dn ingun pa cya dili pa cya ridy sa relasyun but imagine 40 y.o na guy , 5 years la uyab mo ingun ug ing-ana, dn dili pa kabuwag in front of u or bsan z fon man lng, gipili pa ang txt, dn ingun ko nahan ko nice ato closure kung mao na imo gusto kay im sure mag kita ta sa work, ingun cya oki ra daw niya dili me magtagad sa work basta mao na daw na iya final decision, hahayyy sakit but wala ko mahimo, but kalibog ko wat if magkita me unsa man ako buhatun mo smile, e ignore nlng cguro sah, ahak oi mao lagi ni dili ko nahan na ako ma uyab duol nko kay faet kung magbuwag esp ani walay hinungdan mura man ge pag tripan ko or duna cya nakegpustaan ba nuon.....

girl.. male here.. pero i gues mao na ako ma sulti,, na kuha jud ka sa sweet words.. after those sweet words to get into your kingdom tsk.. well i guess not to ruin mens diskarte but thats what we do, we flirt, say nice words but in the end if na kuha na namo, i guess its one of saying thanks.. but not all men are like dat. dats why wen a guy courts you, test him,.. if a guy uses to many sweet words at the start (his a freaking player, base on my exp.) a true and sincere guy who really likes a girl could harldy say a sweet word to a girl kay for sure ma uwaw even ang pinaka hambugero nga guy ma inlove sa usa ka word.. well for u TS better move on, you'll be wasting ur time if gukdon pato nimo ang guy

[bowee]

@TS,

can i ask if you really know him deep down? a 40 year old man doesnt do any drastic actions unless it is enforce that his conscience is guilty of something, or of someone... other than you..

Is he married? One way a guy could shun away from you (after giving yourself to him) would be, that his conscience cannot accept his guilt, especially unsa man iyang status sa iyang life..

Naa juy igo igong rason ug kapasikaran ngano nag ing.ani cya nimo..., it could be again that he has someone else already long before you came and somehow, the bitter relationship he might be experiencing before with his other relationship might have somehow turn sweet already...and he left you cold in the dark for that..

Try to ask daw sa ilaha.. perhaps if your close with his family or friends, try asking what's going on around him... im pretty sure, the more you ask later on (to his family, mama, papa or to his friends), the more you will finally learn the truth on why he left you suddenly "hanging"

Just prepare and be ready to learn the truth...

The truth always hurts deep down... but you have for your sake learn to shove it deep down in you... for the sake of your inner satisfaction to know why he just left you out cold and hanging...

[samsungster]

ignore him.. moved on fast!