my baby is already 1 yr old and she doesnt know how to sleep by herself.. ive seen parents who would just hand over the babys bottle then the baby's sound asleep afterwards.... another problem is when i do have a night shift and she's with our helper .. she wont sleep if our helper wont move and swing the "duyan" for her.. she's used to that when she was still an infant.. its just that when she was still an infant .. shes such a cvry baby and i dont know what to do.. tried all means and the duyan was one of them and now im having problems because of that..what she's used to is to sleep with her duyan moving ( makes our helper really exhausted) when im aaway or sleep by my side breastfeeding..and when she's dislodged she cries.. and its going to be another rough night for me.. help!