selos syndrome

[meltd0wn]

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ask lng ko, especially sa mga girls..

if imung bf kay mutagad sa iyang ex, like "musta nman ka?" then taman ra diha..unsa mn imung ika-react??

ang nahitabu mn gd sa ako is gishagitan ko..i think i overreacted kay ako jd gi-down ang phone pagsugod na taas sa iyang tingog nya di ko nahan masuko niya over a petty thing..ako i'm sure di ko ana mu-react kay naa sad ko trust niya..i guess for me its normal na mutagad lng sa ex since nka-get over nman sad ko and i happy na ko sa akng new life..

what can you say about this??

[Blackjellybean27]

aw ok ra nako magtagad bf ko sa ex nya. pwd pod cla mag beso2x hehehe. i really don't mind as long as d na cla mu txt2x kng unsa2x pa.. that kind of thing..

[bahiista]

aw ok ra nako magtagad bf ko sa ex nya. pwd pod cla mag beso2x hehehe. i really don't mind as long as d na cla mu txt2x kng unsa2x pa.. that kind of thing..

i like your mentality. hope it does manifest physically..hehehe "selos" is another way of "insecurity". so kung tagad2x, beso2x, text2x as long they both knew their boundaries, and kami pod sako pinanga nagkasinabot samo boundaries, ok ra na for me.

[KASAAC]

ok raman na oi... mo admire raba ko ug mga tawo who manage to keep a good relationship sa ilang mga exes... nice au

[meltd0wn]

nice to know that a couple of you guys kind of agree with me.. sige lang ako lng sa siya i-talk sad about it..maybe stressed ra gyud siya gabii from work nya mao pa to akng gi-sulti niya..

[epoaxlan]

ok ra basta, as what blackbellyjean27 said, "kutob ra diha".

[rhenz143]

ayaw na lang tagad kung selosa kaayu imung uyab pra walay away...

[pinkcount3ss]

ok ra man hi, hello.. pero ayaw sad ng cge cge mu kamustahay nya everyday na mo cge txt or chat or talk... pero kung selosa imong uyab, i understand na lang.. basin nag adjust pa... maka get over ra na.. give him/her time...

[ain]

Huhuhu OK ra tingale na if sometimes lang.. pero Bro, yaw lang pod ipa feel sa imong giRL na morag attached paka sa imo Ex like ga cge nalang kag HELLO HI dha... kay if i were her pod, i would really feel the same way...

Ambot aq SELOSA mangud q mao kasabot q sa u GF. Huhu Sorry!


Dali jud au q ma trigger gud, mag selos dyon q pero wala pako ka shagit nuon nya as in nag yell najud tungod sa aq selos .. lpero kanang morag modako na aq voice, kasuway nq.... labi na naa koy ma dscover NEw,, pait btaw bro, BEing Jealous is not an Easy feeling, KInsa mansad nahan na magselos dba.. ma konsomisyon raman ning permi magselos.. sakit sa dughan... pero sometimes we can really feel ths because we LOVE the person TOO MUCH!!

[meltd0wn]

@everyone, gahapon ra ko kita sa akong ex after like a year..i dont have her number so i dont text or call her..di mn sad ko mu-PM mn lng niya sa facebook or YM..it was just out of respect sa pinagsamahan mao to ako siya gitagad..wa mn sad koy kalagot niya though way klaro among pagbuwag kay we decided mn sad na it just wont work out..so yeah mao ra to..

what happened was kita ko niya nagline sad para mag-order food so ako siya gikuhit..kumustahanay ra gd then nilakaw na ko kay didto ko niuban sa akng mga kuyog ug kaon..so i can say, and i can assure my girl, na wa jd something else in between sa nahitabu..

wa pa diay mi ka-talk kay ka-litse sa akong trabaho 19hrs na sad ko sa office..hahaha!!pero if as rhenz143 pointed out, if di gyud siya ganahan ato na mahitabu pa to, wa gyud na prob sa ako..if she's not comfortable with it, fine with me..di gyud ko lisod storyaon..ahahaha!!

thanks sa mga insights peeps..nahayagan akong huna2x..