feelings

[wolfclaw]

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unsay inyong bation kung sukad pagbata nimo bwalan mo sa inyong parents nga dli palaagon og dli ka paduwaon sa mga imong gustong buhaton
nangutana lng ko kung prha bata og btion kay ako sukad pagbta nko bwalan man ko sa akong parnts nga makigcommunicate sa lain nga taw kay strict man gud na sila mao na sukad karon ako mahadlok na nuon ko moatobang og taw

[katmendz11]

i dont have that kind of experience during my childhood. dli strikto ako parents coz nisalig cla nako. palaagon me ug paduwaon after mana buhat sa mga household chores na gi assign and pauli pd sa saktong oras,dli pagabie. pag hyskul if naa activity or kna nyt2x,sugot ra mn cla kay kabalo mn na ini pagpanguli kauban namo amo mga klasm8s na silingan ra sad.

pag college gni nako, ako papa pa ang mo encourage na mo disco(sa amo brgy) ko para daw makaila2x ko sa amo mga silingan,mura daw q madre cge lng tago sa kwarto.

parents shud treat their children as their friends para open ang communication,para sad if naa prob ang anak sa parents mo share una kaysa nuon sa lain tawo.

" no man is an island," so start making new friends..

[epoaxlan]

mura dako kau kag na miss sa imong childhood ts..ana nalng ts bawia nalng karon socialize pod but yaw lng pod pag bogoy2x ha..

[[Avenging PIRANHA]]

nakasuway jud ko ani but later nagrebelde man ko akong giguba ang rule nga dili molaag pero sa pagkadako na nuon nako mao nga kung gusto ka TS masulbad na imong problema rebelde sad panagsa

[iamU]

TS i feel u.. i was also like that when i was younger.

everytime i tend to go out, i always get spanked by my father. always telling me that he keeps on reminding me not to go out. I have a father who is very protective but i soon realized it when i made a very big mistake in my life.. but still, i dont see a reason why he needed to spank me when he can just talk to me abt it.

consequences, i have a very low self esteem.. i have grudges. i am becoming an introvert.. and i was not liking it. but in the process, i am becoming what they want me to become and thats the one thing i really regret in my life..

anyway, advise per se.. try to ask them na lng if how they would feel if they are on ur shoes.. try to talk to them nicely, try to ask them to trust you little by little and try not to break their trust sad..

if u have already done so, try to rebuild urself daun while its not too late..

[dleniako]

depende cguru sa inyo environment...as in tanang tao jud? or numbers or groups of people ra?
dle xa ok if tanan jud na tao..pro did u ever try to ask them y theyre doing that? bcn naa clay explanation...

[kidlovejeayanne]

grabe pud ka strikto sa imong parents TS oi,

[elf]

dako kau kag na miss sa imong childhood....dili jd ka enjoy sa u life....

[joanne05]

ka-relate ko nimo ts. ok ra man sa akoa kay naa man ko bro and sis and close kaayo mi until now..sila akong kadula sauna and enough na to for me that time naa man kaha ka mga igsuon ts?

but pagka-highschool ts i felt freedom kay sige na ko laag and daghan na ko friends...hehehe

[xtianubec]

pareho ra ta ug ka agi TS
ako pud sa una ing-anion pud ko sa akoang Mama
sa akoang case kay only child man gud ko
how about you? only child pud ka?

try to have a talk with your parents TS
im sure it will work out just fine...
ikaw rapud magmahay kung dili nimo sila sultian
make them feel pud na you are responsible enough
to handle things