is it too much if...?

[meltd0wn]

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- gusto sa imung partner na makig-communicate ka niya at least one text a day??
- you worry kay wala siya nagtext nimo if kauli na siya after drinking out with friends??

wa ko kasabot if siya sayup or ako..need insights for the following situations..thanks kay nalilibugan na ang bata

[cptn_star]

too much na nang mga butanga para nimo? one txt a day is no challenge bro! para kana ra di ka kabuhat?

[meltd0wn]

@cptn_star: its the other way around bro..ang uyab nasuko kay "dapat ba gyud diay ko mutxt nimu everyday?!" dw..hehe..naglibog ko bro..wa gyud ko ksabot unsay nakalisod ana..hehe

[cptn_star]

i doubt kng magdugay mo kng wa'y communication...

[meltd0wn]

mao bitaw akng point sad..ok ra unta if magpuyo na mi para at least naay constant reminder ba na "oh there she is..glad she's safe"..mga assurance ra bitaw unta na naa pa siya..pero di mn siya maminaw oi..idala ra ni naku pirme ug katawa kay magsakit ra gyud akng buot niya..hehehe

[beyee]

hmmm... one text a day isn't too much
for any given couple.. it's as if naman,
you're asking your partner a blow-by-blow
account of her daily grind, aite?

it's normal to worry especially if ur girl is out
somewhere partying.. just tell her that it
comforts you to know that she's home safe
and it doesn't mean you don't trust her.

but still, if she hears none of it and even
take it as a joke then something is amiss here.

[meltd0wn]

that's what i've been trying to tell her, that I just can't sleep knowing she's out drinking with her friends..but she hates me for feeling this way because she insists that i'm too paranoid: that I don't trust her and that she can take care of herself..hayyy..i thought i knew her.. T_______T

[cptn_star]

bro you're not paranoid as i see things. your gf just doesnt take you seriously, i guess.

[meltd0wn]

patay ko if mao na..hahaha!!

feel naku kay gikapoy na ko ug sabot sa iyahang batasan..i feel unappreciated na jd pero wa ko ksabot nganong di naku kaya makigbuwag niya..a part of me keeps on saying na dapat akong sabton..hayy..di unta ko kapuyon ug sabot niya oi..

[cptn_star]

unconditional love bro.