it's a family problem that's been running for years

[khimmy]

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its a problem that my mom and i are suffering for 2 years now.. and.. counting...

its about my sister, grabe kaayu xa ka inlove sa iya bf nga siya nai nagbuhi sa iyang bf...
and it's true.. confirmed... and the bad part is she's still in highschool... nga walai other source of money other than her baon...

her usual everyday routine kai when she comes hime from school, mugawas dayun na xa nya if pangutanon asa shel say magpaload lng daw xa... and take note, naka sun siya so why everyday...
and another thing... just as any student wud do, including myself (sauna) mulakaw managhid nga naai palitun (on weekdays) nya mauli by 10-11 pm... unsa jud kaha nang tinadahana uie nga almost midnight na magclose... and worse om weekends... mananghid nga practice ug sayaw... ug unsa na iya chehebureche...

enough about my sissie... lets talk about the guy... i'm sorry if i have to describe him as how i have seen him huh and some are according sa ako sis..

he's 20, gradutae daw ug college.. dunno sa course.. unemployed so certified tambay... wai modo coz he never talked to me or my bf katong tym nga naabtan namo sila sa ako sis... wa nagpailaila... and worse... dili niya sugtan ako sis nga mu do sa iya designated household chores until he says so... unsa ka hilas... to the point nga ako sis kai mananghid pa sa iyang bf nga mueat na xa.. or mugawas kai gisugo... she couldnt even study nah kaayu kai magsige ug patawag ang ukoy nga bf...

grabe, akoi saputon sa ilang kalaki...

and the worst part.. amung mga cellphones sa ako mom nga mga guba.. nangawagtang... and her money.. makuwangan na pirmi... so what my mom does.. she always carry her purse along with her anywhere sa haus... no money is safe here...

geezzz.... pls help.. di na nako matake... maluoy ko sa ako sister.. and sa ako mom.. she's the one nga affected kaayu

[Moongoddess28]

Call the cops? hehe.

Or you/or your mom can definitely confront either of them.
Its always communication that will help you get through it. ^^
Do something before the situation gets any worse--if naa p juy mas grabe p ana...
GODBLESS.♥♥♥

[gshukaku]

very similar with my sister in-law...3rd year high skul...5T pesos sa akog misis nawagtan kay gilibre sa barkada sa uyab..i dont know unsa sulod sa utok aning bayhana pwera gaba man ta ug nawong iyang bf oi...bisan bun-ogon pag kulata sa iyang inahan gi upawan pagani pero wa gyud ma usab...ang grado puros hagbong pa gyud.

[Tirong-say]

Need counselling,
guide your Sister she needs it very badly,

[Moongoddess28]

Need counselling,
guide your Sister she needs it very badly,

ur right Tirong.
She's ur little sis afterall, TS.
Guide her. Mold her into someone na butang tag 'tarung'..

Blood is still thicker than water.♥

[khimmy]

does being the middle child have something to do about this.. coz i think she gets less attention from evrybody... nobody understands her kai gahi jud kaayu xa... ako mom nihilak ka niya...

we tried reaching out to her , talked to her about it.. but still nothing good happened...

i just dont want to get into the point nga mangawat xa sa lain taw para lang magkwarta...
and worse di pajud para iyaha

[Sol_Itaire]

pangita-ig diversions imong sister. take her to trips and outreaches or paapila siya og mga EB sa istorya.net aron makaila-ila og laing mga tawo. she needs a life other than that with her bf. too confining a world!

[nwf]

patagma. let she realize her own mistake.

[khimmy]

pangita-ig diversions imong sister. take her to trips and outreaches or paapila siya og mga EB sa istorya.net aron makaila-ila og laing mga tawo. she needs a life other than that with her bf. too confining a world!

her bf is like controlling her life... she has friends... but hen sa ako nakita murag mamatay xa ug wala iya bf...

[khimmy]

patagma. let she realize her own mistake.

im just afraid mamabdos xa.. wa byay trabaho ang laki.. ambut nlang