Explaining vs Talking back

[scorpio_89]

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Everytime mo-explain rako or mo-express ko sa akong feelings, does that mean na ni-talk back nako sa akong parents?

I'll be turning 21 this coming 26th, naa nako'y kaugalingong huna-huna but still my parents want me to just keep my mouth shut. Seems like my mom doesn't want me to voice it out. Everytime mo disagree ko niya, iya ko kasab-an. Ang nakapait pud kay kun naay issue, they always put the blame on us(my sister and I), Sakto ba na?

[Klave]

Actually, when you try to explain your side you are technically talking back.
But talking back is not supposed to be a bad thing.
Sayop imong parents if they can't allow you to explain yourself.
Dili nimo ma-value ang ilang point and you end up more confused.
Parents like this are arrogant and are underestimating parenthood.

Can you give us sample issues? Tingali inyo jud diayng sala.
Usually, parents like this are already buried with their own problems.
With that said, they tend to just push everything else around.
Ikaw na lang sabot, remember the mistakes they are making so you can be a better parent.

[jessa_surban]

sabta nalang na... basta mga parents d palupig.. gusto cla cla ang sakto permi

[eilrach]

sabta nalang na sis.. wala man ka mabuhat ana, kay kung mo tubag sad ka, dili raman sad na nila paminawon... kay sa ilang mind, sila man sakto.. so dili jud mo mag.daug ana...

[Tirong-say]

They wish to be in control always,
mao ra siguroy rason ngano, perhaps kung makita nila nga you can furnish a sound judgement and decision in your own, then no need for them to intervene in your affairs.
Wala man siguroy tarong nga ginikanan nga gusto ra ang kadaotan sa anak, puro ra gyud kaayohan.

[Manta Rye]

Everytime mo-explain rako or mo-express ko sa akong feelings, does that mean na ni-talk back nako sa akong parents?

I'll be turning 21 this coming 26th, naa nako'y kaugalingong huna-huna but still my parents want me to just keep my mouth shut. Seems like my mom doesn't want me to voice it out. Everytime mo disagree ko niya, iya ko kasab-an. Ang nakapait pud kay kun naay issue, they always put the blame on us(my sister and I), Sakto ba na?

sis, katsila inyo kaliwat? mao sad na ako experience sa ako mother's side kay ako lolo katsila man ug dugo... just do what is right lang sis... kay the more ta murebelde nila the more ta mawala sa right path na dapat ato sundon, whether sila gn nag guide or dili... kita mismo kabalo ta unsa na path ang sakto para nato...21 pa ka sis and girl pud ka....ako lalaki pa man gani ko... pero sa time na nakita nila na i was responsible enough to handle myself they gave me my freedom of choice. and slowly i can explain my side in a level na acceptable nila... muabot ra na na time sis...you just have to keep yourself from breaking apart...

[lord-lord-lord]

explain lang, ayaw isaka ang tingog.. mao sad nay problema nako.. kung mu-explain ko musaka ako tingog, mura na nuon mosukol ba.. hehe

[fratbaxxx]

talking back is somwhat same with explaining....

[bosin]

explaining is calm talking back is somewhat harsh gni pag sulti??
so sagdae rana sis pa lapos lang sa dungan gud

[fratbaxxx]

hahahah mao2 jdS