"Is it wrong to love someone too much?"

[BlacknGray]

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I asked my cousin, "Mali bang magmahal ng sobra?" (She's from Manila). And she was like; "Oo, mali ang magmahal ng sobra.. mali yon, para sa ating mga sarili. Kasi pag nagmahal tayo ng sobra, tayo ang kawawa, diba?" I was very attentive. "Pero hindi kasalanan yon. Magiging kasalanan nalang yon pag tinalikuran mo yung mahal mo." I was puzzled. "Pag pinili mong talikuran siya, dahil takot at ayaw mo lang masaktan. In that case, sarili mo lang yung iniisip mo.. pagiging selfish yon, diba?" "Pag nasaktan,naloko or nabigo tayo sa love.. ayus lang yon, at least hindi tayo yung nanakit." "Kaya pag nagmahal ka na, iparamdam mo yon sa kanya. Wag kang maging selfish. Matuto kang magbigay."

From that conversation, I've learned and realized that it's BETTER to be hurt than to hurt other people.

[nonaghurl0110]

remember that song from the Spice Girls entitled "too much"? it says too much of something is bad enough...

for me and based on my personal experience, i've learned that we can't be hundred percent sure if the person that we gave our all to will do the same for us. hence, it's a must that we leave something for ourselves..

always Remember, "it takes TWO to tango"...

hmmmm....

on the contrary though, there's no such thing as "controlled" love...nope! i don't think it even exists... naturally, we fall in love and get hurt over and over again.. that's the essence of love actually.. we just have to give it our best shot cause "swerte2x ra na ang love jud"...

[britannica]

they say too much of everything is bad and there are no exception on that

[BlacknGray]

Yep, everything done in excess is bad for ourselves. But loving someone without limits is not a sin. OK ra kung molove ta ug sobra sa wrong person, at least we learned to give love.

[nonaghurl0110]

Yep, everything done in excess is bad for ourselves. But loving someone without limits is not a sin.

hey..it is never a sin to love someone sooooo much...

sa laktud pang pagkasulti, nakasala na d i c Jesus for loving us so much?gpakamatyan pa jud gani ta niya..

just enjoy the feeling of being in love while it's still there...

[BlacknGray]

remember that song from the Spice Girls entitled "too much"? it says too much of something is bad enough...

for me and based on my personal experience, i've learned that we can't be hundred percent sure if the person that we gave our all to will do the same for us. hence, it's a must that we leave something for ourselves..

always Remember, "it takes TWO to tango"...

hmmmm....

on the contrary though, there's no such thing as "controlled" love...nope! i don't think it even exists... naturally, we fall in love and get hurt over and over again.. that's the essence of love actually.. we just have to give it our best shot cause "swerte2x ra na ang love jud"...

But people have choices. Some people chose to hide their feelings towards someone.

[Tirong-say]

Samuel Butler

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.

If it is intended to be that way then it's not really wrong,
none could dictate how love would behave,
it's how you feel that guides it.

[BlacknGray]

hey..it is never a sin to love someone sooooo much...

sa laktud pang pagkasulti, nakasala na d i c Jesus for loving us so much?gpakamatyan pa jud gani ta niya..

just enjoy the feeling of being in love while it's still there...

Yeah, I agree

[BlacknGray]

Samuel Butler

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.

If it is intended to be that way then it's not really wrong,
none could dictate how love would behave,
it's how you feel that guides it.

I agree with that saying. But WISE people think that loving someone too much is wrong. Wise and selfish people. Lol

[vahnhelsing]

you'll never now how much is too much.. love at your best...