It's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along

[psyrille_alphatrix]

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I know that my guy likes someone else, and that someone else might feel the same way for him... Though he tells me he loves me, that does not mean nga he doesn't like her anymore right? I know (although sakit i-admit ) nga what's stopping them both is because both of them are already committed, he has me and she has somebody else...

When I heard this song last night, it just came into my mind nga what if mao jud ni iya nafeel? and that it just so happens nga ako maoy nauna so he's already bound to me and the reason why he is staying is because he does not want to hurt me and our baby...

What do you think guys? It's really difficult...

[bolivar1985]

married namo?

[joydee]

Really a difficult situation you have here sis. Best advice, talk it out with your partner, because there should only be one! Don't forget to listen to everything that your partner tells you. Compromise as much as possible and keep an open mind. If you get at the end of the road, worse comes to worse, do not prolong the agony...hope you know what I mean.

Best wishes for you sis!

[jomzkie23]

tsk2x... lisud jud nang ing-ana,,

[tophat]

this thread exists naman sis >>> https://www.istorya.net/forums/relati...mes-along.html

[emcentricity]

that';s so sad sis.... sakit au sa imong part.. but as said, sturyaon ninyog tarong sa imong partner. don't give up. if in the past, inlove jud mo, find ways to fall in love again. basin nagkalayo mo tungod kay busy na au mong duha and wa namo time.

[psyrille_alphatrix]

we've been together for a very long time, and that girl came along about halfway sa amo relationship... I know they have been good friends and if given the chance nga dili pa sila committed i think they would become lovers too...only that naa na man mga commitment on both sides... mafeel man jud nako nga dili ra ako usa sa iya heart and i know it would be unfair to make him choose... and hadlok sad ko to make him choose coz what if he will choose her... ambot... it's really confusing...

[psyrille_alphatrix]

people are expecting us to get married, family, friends who knows us for a long time... pero bisag naa na ang baby i don't think he's ready to take that step yet, and ako sad especially if naay mga ing-ani nga unresolved issues... I know love pa man ko niya, but love is not restricted to boundaries man gud... knowing him for a long time i know daghan sad ko ug shortcomings as a partner... like there's a space in his life that only she can fill up... it wasn't easy to think about these things... I was so angry when i first found out... but he was honest enough to admit his true feelings and assured me that nothing happened between them... It's just a feeling... and there's nothing I can do to stop him from feeling that way, bisag masuko pa ko, bisag muhilak pa ko or bisag magminyo pa mi...

[camzywinsy]

@psyrille: I like the way you accepted the situation. Sakto jud ka sis there's no way for you to stop him from feeling that way. It shows how much you love and respect him as a person.

My advice is let him be. Kahibaw ko na lisod na pero don't hurt yourself too much and know when to let go if you need to. Bati man sad kung masakitan nalang ka dha dba? Pero hold on for as long as you can. But not too much that you lose your self respect and self-worth. YOu als o deserve to be happy!

[crush_23]

dili mani its sad...its happy to belong to sum1 else and happier with additional aw unsa ba


kalisod ana na situation woi.....temptasyon ra na girl...nabag-ohan ra na imong uyab about sa new girl

ayaw nalang sya papilia ug asa sya karon dha ba nmu or sa kato na girl....ikaw nalang palayo niya ..dad-a imong anak...ur world wont stop bsan wala nakay uyab...hunahunaa nalang imong baby