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[yvonne6]

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me and my exbf broke up over a month ago. we were together for 6 years, until dili na jud ma patch up ang among differences. i admit, both of us had shortcomings left and right, mas more lang gyud ang sa iyang part. of course, after we broke up, i was so broken hearted. kinsa bay dili. i turned my depression to something positive para ra pud sa akong kaayuhan. i used to weigh 65 kg (x 2.2 for lbs). nidaku jud ko pag au since i used to work in a call center. wala kaau physical activity. i dieted and exercised from may 1st. karon, 52 kg na jud ko. im so happy. i can wear my sexy clothes again. nahibulong ko kay, since akong ex naka notice nga ni lose na akong weight, nana may signs nga murag bothered siya asa ko mo adto, or asa ko molakaw. flattered ko in a way but im curious kung kamo mga uban laki naa ba moy ingon ani na experience? kana bang, kung kanus a hinuon nag break sa uyab, na notice ninyo nga mura mag na yummier (char!) ang ex, na daring or na sexy, kana bang mura kag nag wonder nga sa kami pa, wala or dili mani siya ingon ani. naka feel ba mo nga nag selos or nag huna2 nga basig nana ni siyay lain. i know nga 2 months ago is not too long ago, of course naa pa man jud nay feelings mahabilin. please enlighten my mind. basig feeler ra sad kaau ko. hehe. thanks

[Klave]

me and my exbf broke up over a month ago. we were together for 6 years, until dili na jud ma patch up ang among differences. i admit, both of us had shortcomings left and right, mas more lang gyud ang sa iyang part. of course, after we broke up, i was so broken hearted. kinsa bay dili. i turned my depression to something positive para ra pud sa akong kaayuhan. i used to weigh 65 kg (x 2.2 for lbs). nidaku jud ko pag au since i used to work in a call center. wala kaau physical activity. i dieted and exercised from may 1st. karon, 52 kg na jud ko. im so happy. i can wear my sexy clothes again. nahibulong ko kay, since akong ex naka notice nga ni lose na akong weight, nana may signs nga murag bothered siya asa ko mo adto, or asa ko molakaw. flattered ko in a way but im curious kung kamo mga uban laki naa ba moy ingon ani na experience? kana bang, kung kanus a hinuon nag break sa uyab, na notice ninyo nga mura mag na yummier (char!) ang ex, na daring or na sexy, kana bang mura kag nag wonder nga sa kami pa, wala or dili mani siya ingon ani. naka feel ba mo nga nag selos or nag huna2 nga basig nana ni siyay lain. i know nga 2 months ago is not too long ago, of course naa pa man jud nay feelings mahabilin. please enlighten my mind. basig feeler ra sad kaau ko. hehe. thanks

There is nothing wrong with what both of you are feeling now.
Though wala ka musulti kinsa nakig buwag, I assume ang laki nakig buwag.

Well sa laki nga side.
If impressed gyud ko na "yummy" na ka... of course magmahay gyud ko.
Naay guys nga don't like nga ilang partners kay stagnant.
When he was seeing that all the problems are the same...worse pa gyud...
nagkadako pa gyud ka...so naworried ang laki, then eventually wa na siya ganahi nimo.
So maybe that was what is lacking in your relationship, the effort of both to constantly become better versions of themselves. Karon if you say you want to try it again, there is nothing wrong as long as available pa mung duha. So about improving oneself, actually bonus ra na ang physical, it matters more nga the constant problems you both have will slowly but surely be solved.

[tJc]

It's normal considering the fact that 2 months pa lang ang nilabay.

Bisan ug nag break mo, naa gihapon na feelings.. di gyud na mawagtang samot na nga 6 years mo together.

6 years of feelings can't just be erased in 2 months.. but bottomline is nag buwag mo tungod sa inyong differences but who knows.. maybe the time spent away from each other is what made the spark between you two alive again.. i would advise that you talk things through, with no pretense of coming back together but just talk.

become friends again, see where it goes.

Who knows.. maybe this time things between the two of you will be much better.

As the saying goes.. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"

[PepperQ]

all are right...

d question is wat made u decide to go on diet or exercise?

if u wanted his attention then u have d answer.

if u wanted change then go on with the change... if u cnt figure out wat dis means, let me know....

[moonwind]

Ako ning ex si Nina? hahahah dili cguro

eniwei

your situation is somewhat similar to mine...I broke up (akong sala tanan) with my gf of 5 years nya after we broke up, In a way i was happy because she opened up herself to a new world that doesnt involve me anymore...laag cyag layo, yes nigamay pud cya while me the exact opposite (although rockstar ghpon ko) i was happy for her nya murag gi gaba gabaan gyud ko ncoz i was so miserable while cya...nakauyab pa gyud hahahahaha good for her. lately nagkita mi to talk some things and i guess i prooved to myself na wala na ko iya sistema...naa koy pagmahay gamay kay 5 years bya pud mi but we cant change things now di ba

kanag imo excericse is good...no idiot would tell you ayaw excericse...its good for us...nya sa imo predicament...ive always lived by a simple credo..somethings could be better if we all just let them be...be happy naconcern cya ghpon nimo bsan as a frined na lang pero stay firm sad on your limits. kana imo limits ikaw na magbuot ana...kung gnhn ka makigb alik, walay public ordinance na nagbawal nimo...if you want to enjoy ur singleness hala yadz rampa!!!! hahahahaha...live one day at a time...too much planning puts wrinkles on our faCE...=)

[emcentricity]

mao nang gina ingong you don't know what you got til it's gone.

congrats sis sa weight loss you're not imagining things, sakto na imong duda.
why don't you talk man kamong duha para mag husay mog tarong hehehe

[yvonne6]

nag talk naman mi bag o lang. ang line niya kay, i still care about you yvonne but we have differences man gud. duh. karon, im enjoying life nga walay uyab. there are times nga ma miss nimo kay dugay baya kaau mi, esp kanang matulog ko sa iyang arms ug mag hug sa iyang daku nga tiyan. hehe. like now, im going to bantayan for several days with a friend and classmates. i have not done this for a long time. goodluck to me. unta makakita sad akong ex sa iya jud kalipay. funny kay gahapon, gipugos mig pa kiss sa among baby. hahay bataa.

[BackEdge]

Differences or indifference? nagka bb muh with those differences? and he still cares for you and you still longed for his arms...KA CUTE..hahaha.Sounds like frustrations and fear of not having this boy (tiguwang pero walay buot).You are indeed better without that person and re-think your life's direction..what really makes you happy? start fro there..align and focus ..lose weight..healthy lifestyle..much better social life with friends...counting and counting still.. remember..your success in implementing these on yourself will also determine and if not will greatly affect your bb's mindset and future.

-just my two cents

[yvonne6]

na shock ko today, he went to the house and took the baby there kay ga share man mi sa bata. he attempted to touch me and i resisted. ako siya gi ingnan, wala na lang gyud koy self respect if i allow him to do that, buwag na baya mi. nilakaw ug walay tingog2. wala ko naka feel nga nag regret ko, infact, i felt good nga courageous ko sa akong nahimo ug nasulti. hahay, love noh, why does it have to be this way. nag hinay2 na gyud kawala akong feelings niya. congrats to me

[joan624]

^^bilib ko nimo sis. keep it up! God bless