found out about you....

[anya]

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sakit.a oist...i just found out that my boyfriend is actually in another relationship, and it seems dugay2x na sila, so murag ako na ang kabit. what hurts the most is the fact that he looked straight into my eyes and lied. kai when he was courting me, for around 6 mos., nya mo ask ko niya if naa cyay uyab, maka sayon2x cyag tanaw nako unya mo.ingon na wala. paita oist. as in, wala jud koy idea na ingana diay ang situation. adto pa jud cya sa balay namo, nya nag atubang cya sa akong papa og ingon na serious daw kono cya, blah blah blah....basta oy, ngano ingana man jud na? why do we have to go through so much pain to find happiness?

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* Some of us or most of us learn things the hard way. Life Lesson 101! I have been in a similar situation myself. When I confronted my then Bf about it, he had the audacity to tell me this: "WA MAN TAKA ILISI, GIDUGANGAN LANG TA MO!" I guess in your case you ended up lookin like the other woman. And that is a bummer. But you have two options. First is you can let this experience MAKE YOU (be stronger and wiser) or BREAK YOU (be bitter and cynical). Hope you will opt for the former.
And you said it yourself, sometimes we have to go through pain (or hell and back) before we can experience happiness! Stay strong. Someday you will eventually meet a man who will love you and treat you the way u deserve to be treated and loved.