Good things come to those who waits but better things come to those who works for it.

[kurdapia.nikki]

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Naglibog ko ani da.
Unsa man ju'y tinuod? HAHA.

For the guys:
Okay ra kaayu if you work on it.
Ang ang man sad kamo'y muhuwat.

For the girls:
Okay ra nga good thing ra ta? HAHA.
I want it better. Pero, I will work for it?
I mean, WHAT? Ako mu effort for the 'BETTER' thing?


Unsaon man jud ni ba? HAHA.
Galibog nako. LOL.

[Amicus Curiae]

Im more confused...
What's really your point?

[kurdapia.nikki]

confused sad ko ani brad. HAHA.

ako pasabot ba,
kami mga babay, dapat pa ba mi mu effort para sa better things?
i mean, in situations like in admiring.
kay babay mi, huwat rajud mi diba?
unya ana sila, better things come to those who work for it.
nia mu effort mi? kami mu do sa move?
WT?

[disomniac]

wOrk foR it sa paRt sa guRL kai give the gUy the motiVe of the chASe...

[Peenut]

Both man mu work if naa na mu sa usa ka relationship.

Pero if wala pa, awh...heheh

Just be yourself. Have a character, like an outstanding quality or trait. Focus on your strengths and be very confident. Also, make sure you look him in the eyes and smile.


Be patient. The influx of everything "instant" has diminished the value of patience, when in fact, this understated virtue is a hallmark of maturity and perseverance.

[TEDA]

meet the guy halfway!
you both should work on it for a BETTER relationship

[KASAAC]

Both should do the work to keep the relationship burning.

[shagrath_99]

mas better if it's both ways.. hehehe..

[Githyanki]

confused sad ko ani brad. HAHA.
ako pasabot ba,
kami mga babay, dapat pa ba mi mu effort para sa better things?

Well, as they say, "it takes two to tango." In a relationship, it should be that both parties work together for the relationship to work. It's not healthy at all if only one party is doing everything.

i mean, in situations like in admiring.
kay babay mi, huwat rajud mi diba?
unya ana sila, better things come to those who work for it.
nia mu effort mi? kami mu do sa move?
WT?

It's a cultural thing... But there is no rule forbidding girls from making the first move. What you can do is to try to get close or get to know him in subtle ways. Also, be patient, sometimes we just have to let things unfold itself.

[Amicus Curiae]

confused sad ko ani brad. HAHA.

ako pasabot ba,
kami mga babay, dapat pa ba mi mu effort para sa better things?
i mean, in situations like in admiring.
kay babay mi, huwat rajud mi diba?
unya ana sila, better things come to those who work for it.
nia mu effort mi? kami mu do sa move?
WT?

Ahh ok... i think you need to compromise and meet him halfway...
but not to the point that you'll appear cheap... its good if you
know the guy well so that you'll know your limitations also..

It doesn't make you lesser of a woman if you express what you
truly feel, but just be careful... the guy might take advantage!