Ngano man dghan laki nga mahadlok og commitment?

[chitchatchix]

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Mao gyd ni akong nabantayan sa kasagaran nako kaila laki..

Sensitive kaayo when it comes to the topic nga parte og minyo2x.. unsa man gyd diay naa sa kaminyoon nga mura'g allergic man kaayo mo ani?? hmmmN

comments..?

[butong101]

Hadlok masakitan.. ang laki pa as if ra nga dili kunohay maka feel pero grabi kun mo feel.. mao nga hadlok mo commit..

[Zxianne^Ice85]

Simply because they are not yet ready...haysttt...

[chitchatchix]

Hadlok masakitan.. ang laki pa as if ra nga dili kunohay maka feel pero grabi kun mo feel.. mao nga hadlok mo commit..

mao lagi na lagi.. nga naa gyd qy kaila nga ingnon na gani kanus.a xa mag minyo..mag dayon og ingon nga pwera buyag tawn!

[chitchatchix]

Simply because they are not yet ready...haysttt...

nganong naka panghupaw man kah??hehehe naa pud kay gihuwat nga proposal??

[hepatomegally]

kay naa pay daghan,.,.,. maau mn gud mu commit mi kanang xure na gyud bah,.,.+

[bug311]

ako lang ni nakit an which naa pud point

Reason #5: Your confidence level. You are hot!!! Ladies, I am sure some of you believe he will not commit because there is something wrong with you. Here's a shocker....you are partially correct. Men fall in love with confidence. If you're not sure you deserve him, then he's not sure you deserve him. Why do you think all men love Brett Favre? He's pretty good at what he does. Regardless if you like the team he plays for, his self confidence is contagious. We love confident people, men or women. Make sure your man knows that you are hot & you know it. Strut your stuff!! Once he notices how confident you are in yourself, he is reassured that you are the one.

Reason #4: No Fear of Loss. I have a friend who is a realtor. He said he sells more homes by telling clients that someone else is about to buy the property. I hate to tell you this girls, but men view their women as property. I know...we are pigs. But the fact is, if anyone attempts to "trespass", we will shoot. Now that you know this...use it to your advantage. If your man does not "protect his turf", then he doesn't truly care. Let him know that a "For Sale" sign is not below you. If he is getting "Free Rent", then why should he buy the house or even fear eviction. And if you have to resort to eviction, be strong enough to not let him buy the house without perfect credit or long term intentions. He hasn't "dumped" you for a reason. He does fear losing you, he will never show it.

Reason #3: Stagnation & boredom. Wake up ladies!! We get bored easy!! Men get bored, but the problem is men conform to monotony easily & never seek a way out. Why do you think we are good factory workers? If you make it easy for us, then why should we put any more effort in the relationship than is required. We clock in, we clock out, we pick up our check. Is your relationship based on a "time clock" & "pay days"? If so, there is no reason he needs to work any harder to receive better pay. If the "spice" in his life is sports, guys, cars, friends, etc., then you are just the plate that serves him. If he can't predict what you will do next, then you become the main course & the spice.

Reason #2: The thrill of the hunt. Do you remember the butterflies you got in your stomach the first time you met or went on a date? Well, men do as well. Except women do not give men "butterflies". Women give men the thrill of the hunt. Haven't you heard the phrase, "Good catch"? This is where it comes from. You may have been an easy catch for him. You may have been a tough catch for him. But regardless how he got you, he needs & wants to keep chasing you. But be careful. Make sure he still catches you easily. Play with us like you play with your kitty. (no dirty thoughts) When you allow kitty to constantly catch the toy mouse, he will play forever. But if he can't catch it anymore, he will get distracted.

Reason #1: The grass may be greener. By an overwhelming consensus of myself & male friends, this is the number one reason men fear relationship commitments. Women may have some control over the other four reasons. But ladies, you are helpless in this matter. This is totally the mans deal & there is no way women can even attempt to change it. This one is somehow embedded in our DNA. Men will deny this exist to their partners. No matter how beautiful, adorable, sexy, nice, wonderful, motherly, etc. you are, men fear there may be something better out there waiting for them. I remember this feeling like it was yesterday. No matter how much I loved my wife when we were dating, I was so afraid I was missing out on someone better. I was sure that the day after we got married, Christie Brinkley was going to call me & ask me out. Sounds stupid doesn't it? Sadly, it's the truth. You are probably the best thing to ever happen to him. Yet he still wonders if there is anything better. Don't hate us for thinking this way. We hate it as well.

There are other small fears to commitment that are menial & may have some merit. Those fears include, not wanting to grow up, marriage unknowns, giving up freedoms, & simply put....no love. But these five reasons tell the story. If you think about it, the first four are intertwined. And although I somewhat put the blame on women with the first four, they together do not come close to Reason #1. Most of all, men fear "settling". Men fear "giving up", "caving in", & "missing out." But if somehow women could lose men of the first four fears, commitmentphobics may be able to realize they are not "settling." They have everything they will ever need right there in their arms.

[bug311]

naa pa daghan oi, naa pa jud. just also look at the right places, he.he.he.

[bug311]

Simply because they are not yet ready...haysttt...

basin naa ni gihuwat!! sultii na brad!

[chitchatchix]

kay naa pay daghan,.,.,. maau mn gud mu commit mi kanang xure na gyud bah,.,.+

kanus.a man mo kaingon nga sure na gyd??