The Art of Saying NO

[Peenut]

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Learn how to say "no" without offending other people.

1. Convince the other person that your decisions is in his best interest.
2. Delay - do not be quick to say no. Explore every possibility first. Get all the information you can before you act.
3. Ask signaling questions to convey to the petitioner that a NO is in the making.
4. Apologize and mean it. When you say NO, make known your displeasure in doing so.
5. Never say NO directly. Say what amounts to it.
6. Compliment, surely, but don't flatter. Concede that somebody's request has some merit.
7. Offer a substitution or an alternative.
8. Avoid appearing mealy mouthed; say NO tastefully with tact.
9. Make it easy for the others to accept your disagreement. Say "Let's think about that.
10. Just be plain honest. Don't be brutal.

[annerhexian]

U can say no, but then learn to validate it with reason.

my art of saying NO. har har har


pwede man, perhaps or maybe and later on the NO part, sweetie. har har har

[Peenut]

U can say no, but then learn to validate it with reason.

my art of saying NO. har har har


pwede man, perhaps or maybe and later on the NO part, sweetie. har har har

Explore the reasons.... heheheh

[andii]

btw.,
washahahah.,
patay lang to ig klase.,

[Fern]

in my case....

i say "NO" in a seductive and sexy way ....

[Su-Hae]

wow! maayoha jud aning Peenut oi! thanks sa info!

[Peenut]

in my case....

i say "NO" in a seductive and sexy way ....

whoa.... seductive and sexy.... it's like a hanging yes..lol

[joan624]

mao gyud ni akong lisudan

saying NO

to anyone..

[Peenut]

wow! maayoha jud aning Peenut oi! thanks sa info!

Thanks Su Hae... Your welcome

[Peenut]

mao gyud ni akong lisudan

saying NO

to anyone..

Then its time to follow those arts. Practice will show results..


If symptoms persist, consult me... LOL