need advice!

[mike5]

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hi all,

mejo taas ni..

ask tako ninyo kn wat nyo tanaw sako situation rn.. im in a 3 month relationship w/my gf.. things r kindy roughy jd since moody au cya pgkatao.. almost every month mgaway jd mi n hapit matiwas amu relationship, but napadayon namu cuz i can't let go of her and nisabot pd cya.. halos tanan namu away is cuz sa iya mga laag2x.. recently ngtambay pamn gd cya so mkasabot sd ko kay boringan cya sa ilaha den i cant be with her sad all d tym.. pero d ko nahan mulaag cya cuz hadlok ko mkameet cya ug lain, cuz shes very attractive mn gd everytym manlaag mi sa mga bars dghan jd mulingi nya na guys.. in short insecure au ko.. also, i dunu y jd bt usually late na jd na cya uli sahay mabuntagan pa..

last week lng, nilaag cya den ako gitugtan kay i knw shes with hers frens sd.. d next day she told me nga buntag na cya uli na nikuyog clang mgbarkada with an old fren daw.. ako cya gpahbaw na wako nalipay.. d following day kay ngkta me, n nakabasa ko sa iya fone naay nitx na unknown # "tnx 4 ur tym, get home safe" she told me na iya daw old fren. although wala cya nireply. ako cya giask y nihatag cya # she told me na kay old fren lge nya. my question is can i trust wat she told me ba? y would an old fren tx her dat way mn?

please advice.. tnx..

[miakka070]

wla rna brod..its normal..anah jud na dli m iwasan naai motxt..ning care rgud as a friend..hehe ayw kau ka paranoid..nah m pareha ka nko hala goodluck nlng nya! hahah but yw pod kumpyansa..adjsmnt stage pa pod mo gd..k?

[mike5]

ok.. d bana angay kabalak.an mulaag cya til buntag sis? masuko mn gd cya kn ako cya bawalan ug laag2x.. nihangyo ko kn pwed d lng late au muuli pero mabuntagan ra japn cya.. she asked for space gai karn kay sapoton na daw cya nako kay stoper kunu ko.. ako giask nya is 4 her to act na naa cya bf btaw, naa maworry ko if she out der partying or unsa.. i dnt rily tnk dats too much to ask 4 dba? but still sahay mgwala ra japn cya.. huhuhu

[sashemae]

ask yourself if okay raba nimo ang girl nga ingana ug batasan nga hilig ug night life, etc. etc... if yes, then just trust her (if u think worthy cya nga saligan), if not then pangita ug lain nga di laagan kay mag ugtas lng ka ana labaw ng u admitted nga insecure ka. at least sayo2x pa ba, d pa kaayo lisud i.let go.

[joan624]

murag immature paman imong girl.. how long have u known each other? and how did you meet? unsa mn imong pagkaila sa imong girlfriends? kiaton ni cya? igaton? or masaligan ra?

[disomniac]

why not try to cut-off ur being concerned bf thing and let her do her stuff..

like lu-agi daw gamay tan.awn nato dli ba cya mahibulong pud...

pero dont freak out bro , be logical sa...i know risky cya paminawn but its goin to be worth ...

[browniies]

you should have known her more.
kasuway nako ani.
pero maayo gane tingale kay dili cya laagan kaayo gyud?
pero i didn't mind that na lang atoh kay basta ako, matog nako kay clase pako. heheheh.
that was when i was in HS then.

[elia]

typical immature or happy go lucky nga person.... Naa pa sa stage nga ganahan pa jud mag laag2x...

[JAINI]

pila na age ninyo bro...kana imu pangotana bro mas ikaw maka tubag ana kay ikaw mas nakaila sa imu self ug sa imu gf..about anang laag nya late na uli nya naapa mag txt2x dili na maayo maski pa wala siyay bad intention pero duol siya sa temptation ana..

[shaant-dive]

hayzz, nag uros2x nga gugma ni bro, hehe. bitaw, you should trust your gf bro kay wala man sad kay bug-at nga ebidensya gud nga nagbinoang siya. a relationship without trust will never bloom man sad good.