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    Default Single OFW parents, diri tah!


    Who among you here in istorya, who's a single parent & a certified OFW or maski dili sa abroad basta medyo layo sa ilahang anak for the sake of work.
    Diri tah ipagawas ato mga gebati, exchange of thoughts /ideas how to cope up with our current situation which is dili lalim.


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    Ako ra man diay siguro gatikaw2 diri.

    I thought I can find people who can relate with me kay para makashare unta ug mga valuable thoughts bah.

    It's just hard to be caught in a situation wherein you need to make an option, but both option has circumspect results.

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    biskan dali da uli sa cebu.. hadluk sad ko na basi mas maattach ako baby sa ako parents. and when time comes na ibuwag na ang bata dili na sya mukuyog namo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mazkot View Post
    biskan dali da uli sa cebu.. hadluk sad ko na basi mas maattach ako baby sa ako parents. and when time comes na ibuwag na ang bata dili na sya mukuyog namo.
    Paet bitaw gyud, like yesterday's scenario, ako kauban sa choir Pinoy magtiayon diri sa abroad, they have 2 kids a boy & a girl, ang eldest is like 10 years old an dyoungest is like 8, both were born here & raised here, attended their schooling here, until, finally, they have to leave (the kids) for thie studies.
    Sakit man dawaton like my case, it's all about financial reasons.
    The little girl approached me
    AND SAID, "tITA, alis na kami mamya gabi, di nami balik dito" .Maluha2 tawon ang mata sa bata.

    I know it will be very hard for all of them to part ways, to adjust being away from each other.
    I ask the father, how much he pay for their schooling here., he told me,I must pay for each child in the cheapest school about 30K in peso per semester (quarterly man gud ang bayad diri).
    And both parents are earning an average income per month.
    So they're left with no option but to send them to Phils.or else it's difficult to sustain kids education here.

    If not the education ang rason, ang yaya sa bata if gamay pah, mahal nga kaayo ug lisud pa jud to get one, minimum pasweldo 10K a month.

    COMMON DENOMINATOR , it's all about the money.
    Last edited by miramax; 04-26-2010 at 02:12 PM.

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    Mao jud, we have diffrent choices jud, lisud pag bana-bana sa ani nga sitwasyon, u have no choice kapit sa patalim jud, kung dri rapud ta magwork di jud enough ang income para ibuhi sa mga anak, need no choice , mo gamble jud ka sa future sa atong kids... kaysa gutom ang paaboton dri,

    Sakita di man na makaya nako oi, strong jud ang f-eelings sa uban kay nakaya jud ninyo!

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    Quote Originally Posted by miramax View Post

    COMMON DENOMINATOR , it's all about the money.
    swertehan na lng na broad minded pag dako sa ato baktin k mahadluk sad ko na inganan ko sa ako anak na dili kwarta iya hipangita but just having her "real" parents to be there for her sa mga special ocassions.

    ug ako parents na dili mu over the line of being grand parents to the point na mas mo pabor sya sa iya lolo ug lola.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mazkot View Post
    swertehan na lng na broad minded pag dako sa ato baktin k mahadluk sad ko na inganan ko sa ako anak na dili kwarta iya hipangita but just having her "real" parents to be there for her sa mga special ocassions.

    ug ako parents na dili mu over the line of being grand parents to the point na mas mo pabor sya sa iya lolo ug lola.
    Daghan ko ug na witness nga completo ug ginikanan pero, paet kaayo ang pagpuyo, mga bata, di kaeskuyla, way klaroy puy-anan or if wa man gani maglisud sa pangwarta, cge away ang magtiayon.

    I do have friends who grew up under the guardianship of grannies or old-maid Aunties, will loved & well nurtured, yet they became succesful in their own fields.

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    I agree we have to be practical.. but kung ikaw makakita sa usa ka mama ug shagitan sa iya anak while going in to the airport "MAYTAG MAHULOG ANG AEROPLANO!" murag maka ingon gyud ka nam aytag dili ko ka experience ana.

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    ang magkasinabot inyo nana hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by mazkot View Post
    I agree we have to be practical.. but kung ikaw makakita sa usa ka mama ug shagitan sa iya anak while going in to the airport "MAYTAG MAHULOG ANG AEROPLANO!" murag maka ingon gyud ka nam aytag dili ko ka experience ana.
    Ing-ana nga klase pagka-anak, does not deserve the love of a parent.
    Angay anah pasagdan para makita ang katag.

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