How to deal with a boyfriend with no job..

[forum_angel]

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My friend's bf doesn't have a job. Cge lang ingon nga mag business lang daw cya pero until now wala lang ghapon. Naa xa mga plans pero d jud mulihok dayon. But my friend loves this guy jud. And the guy has plans to marry her in the next few years. Ipa ila ila na xa sa iya family. Unsa inyo ikaadvice? Napa kaha ni chance mausab mangita ba jud kaha nig trabaho?

[BackEdge]

My friend's bf doesn't have a job. Cge lang ingon nga mag business lang daw cya pero until now wala lang ghapon. Naa xa mga plans pero d jud mulihok dayon. But my friend loves this guy jud. And the guy has plans to marry her in the next few years. Ipa ila ila na xa sa iya family. Unsa inyo ikaadvice? Napa kaha ni chance mausab mangita ba jud kaha nig trabaho?

ahahahaha...mausab? ang pagka tapulan kina-iya na sa tao dili na mausab. that's the risk of chosing a partner like that. Makuha lang diay ka sa sweet talks ug nice plans,pasalig blah..blah..nag buwa na ang baba ug pamutbot unya wala kay nakita?..hahaha..u most be kidding!
You tell your friend, nag decide muh mag uyab-uyab then dapat ka kabalu how to handle this case otherwise all that you are doing now are just shit's... your little experiments, wasting time.

[ozracing]

basin pud datu ang family sa guy mao nga tapulan molihok...(usually the case)

[nice_work]

i-encourage sa ta niya nga mas nindot ang naa work kaysa magbusiness [state pro's & con's]
or pwd sad kanang duha...(for security reasons)
kay mas nindot bya ng naa kay stable job jud when you get married kay naa sad
bya na mga benefits sa company ba...
depende ra jud na unsaon na ug pamaagi/diskarte sa girl kung unsaon niya pagdala anang iyang bf
nga wala work pa ba,..or di ba tabangan niya ang apply...

[ozracing]

pabuwagi nlang na niya sis....or hatagan ultimatum if dili gani mangita job...aw buwag. no future.

[the Messenger]

I agree with BackEdge. Rich, lazy and jobless? A recipe for disaster! Maka turnoff jud.

My advice:

• Tell your friend to "verbalize" her concerns to the BF -- especially when he starts bringing up marriage matters.
  
• If she really intends to stick with him, let her encourage him to start a business or seek employment (whichever the BF prefers) but don't nag. Otherwise, tell her to prepare herself emotionally and financially. (You can't change people overnight.)
  
• To move the BF into action, suggest setting up an account for their wedding or marriage life. Bisan monthly sila magcontribute ug tig P500 on their separate accounts. The important thing is... they will feel obligated to prepare for their future.

[jack_d_wack]

My friend's bf doesn't have a job. Cge lang ingon nga mag business lang daw cya pero until now wala lang ghapon. Naa xa mga plans pero d jud mulihok dayon. But my friend loves this guy jud. And the guy has plans to marry her in the next few years. Ipa ila ila na xa sa iya family. Unsa inyo ikaadvice? Napa kaha ni chance mausab mangita ba jud kaha nig trabaho?

d jud mulihok paita ana. love lagi but beyond that, please remember the responsibility behind it. paningkamot tawn do!

[angelfreak]

magpaksal na xa, he can't even take responsibility over himself...
she could be digging her own demise...
love is a responsibility...

[treize]

pabuwagi di ba mangita na og trabaho... wahehehe...

[xericho]

wala na gyud romantics sa kalibutan, kwarta na gyd importante d i karon noh? why can't we simply just love somebody keep it at that? mau ra man unta na common thing sa tanan religions, love.

naive pa kaayo ko hehe.