Imo hubby so dependent with his parents

[Pinkish]

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My hubby is so dependent with parents. And he wanted me to be like him. Ang ako lng di man ko gusto mgsalig sa ako parents pud ky di man mi pareho nla nga naay dghan kwarta. and besides maikog nko ky im already 30 and minyo ngud ko. so that means we can live on our own. but my hubby evertym naa mi problem sa money, masuko cya if di pd ko mangayo sa ako parents. ky cge lng kno cya nya ako parents daw la gkatabang namo. paet au ako situation i dont know what is right and wrong. please help me with this....

[jennilexshop]

basically sayop jud u hubby kay nano nagminyo mn nga wlay saktong kwrata? and dli na pde magsaleg sa mama uie dpt mg find cxa way kay laki mn cxa,..

[Pinkish]

di man ingon ana iya thinking sis. iya family gbutang man sa ilang huna2x nga bisan minyo or legal age na knhanglan ghapon agakon. ang nakalisod ky almost all his friends are like that. murag tan aw nya ako ang sayop. sometimes i regret being a child to a poor parents. but its not my fault and its not my parents fault as well. saun2x lng ko nya ug kasaba whenever mg away mi. the worst is iya jud ko pakauwawan sa dghan taw. he wud even brag about his family's supporting acts. akoa daw wla lng jud pakialam. kung mg away mi iya daun tawagan ako parents ky gusto nya ako parents mu solve sa amo problems. what will i do with this man? i am beginning to feel hopeless. should i leave him or find another man who will show some care? im desperate to this...

[yvonne6]

trust me, dili nana mausab pa klase lakiha. 30's namo then ingon ana iya thinking. i will not tell u to leave this man, naa baya moy mga anak. but then, ipakita niya nga kaya nimo even without him. ako, pag leave nakos akong exhubby, 3 ka anak akong gi bitbit. lisud kaau at first but then, naka adjust rami later. karon dagku na ang mga bata. siya moy walang kuwenta nga amahan kay gipasagdan ra niya iyang mga anak. wala manay itlog imong bana oi. i even doubt kung lalaki ba gyud na. dapat gani sa lalaki, naay pride when it comes to supporting his own family. dili angay mag salig sa parents oi

[leo_trams]

ngano diay ug imo siyang biyaan?
unsa diay mahitabo ninyo kung biyaan ninyo siya?
wala man kaha siya gikatabang sa inyong kaminyoon, biya-e na ui.


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[Pinkish]

trust me, dili nana mausab pa klase lakiha. 30's namo then ingon ana iya thinking. i will not tell u to leave this man, naa baya moy mga anak. but then, ipakita niya nga kaya nimo even without him. ako, pag leave nakos akong exhubby, 3 ka anak akong gi bitbit. lisud kaau at first but then, naka adjust rami later. karon dagku na ang mga bata. siya moy walang kuwenta nga amahan kay gipasagdan ra niya iyang mga anak. wala manay itlog imong bana oi. i even doubt kung lalaki ba gyud na. dapat gani sa lalaki, naay pride when it comes to supporting his own family. dili angay mag salig sa parents oi

you're right he's half a man. but i know he will change paman kung wla na iya mama. mintras buhi pa iya mama di jud cya mausab. ky mutoo man jud cya sa iya mama ky kusog man au muhatag ug kwarta. nya giubosan pud cya tan-aw nko ky i came from a poor family..

[the Messenger]

That's tough. I suppose his family is in control because you're living with them. Why oh why did you marry your hubby? I'm sorry if you just found out how dependent he is. If you knew ahead, I guess you'll just have to sit tight, sis, and demand respect, at the least.

[skyangel]

di na mada ui..dapat independent na cya

[snowwhite]

there are some parents jud nga muspoil sa ilang anak to the point nga ma useless ilang anak in the future. ayaw sad cguro biya-e imong husband..try talking to him kay basin you can solve this problem pa. let him know your side nga you were brought up to be independent and imong parents dili ana ka daghan ang extra money but point out their good side sad like mas mutabang ba bantay with the kids or mas mutabang solve ba sa inyong probs kay not everything can be solved by money nya basin money ra kaya ihatag sa iyang parents..

[kamber11]

hehehe time will come that ur hubby will learn to stand by himself ...