gusto nag lain

[yvonne6]

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i've been with the same man for the past 6 years (almost) and to be honest, most of this time, puro lang sakit ug heart aches ang akong nabati. yes, there were times nga medyo nag effort akong bf but then, 5% ra guro compared sa mga pasakit. it took me this long to realize that i deserve someone better because if u truly love someone, u will not only give them 1,2,3 chances but a lot of chances to change esp karon nga naa nami anak. several times i thought of cheating but its not my nature to cheat. i even told my bf nga he should be thankful im a very faithful kind. he said, go an and cheat. wow. grabe noh? i think he said it para naa siyay reason nga akoy pakasad on. dili sad tawn ko tanga nga akong dugangan ang among problema by cheating. naka decide nako nga support na lang akong pangayuon niya ug pasagdan na nako siya ug unsa man gani ang iyang gustong buhaton sa iyang life. i know its not easy but im sure i will be happy somehow, dili lang siguro diha2 kay of course hurting baya ko. i do hope nga naa koy ma meet nga maski dili nako ma bf, someone who will respect my feelings and will share life with me or be my activity partner but kanang dili ko pasakitan or gamiton lang. im so confused gyud karon. i wish to be with someone who can listen to me, hold my hand and maybe hug me and tell me, sige lang, sagdi na lang to siya, tanga to siya sa iyang gibuhat, puede ako na lay magmahal nimo. char. asa man tawn kang tawhana ka woi!

[lovely_chic]

that's how i feel right now and it's really hard jud sis...it's like I am torn more than a hundred times. Men are born to be polygamous and luoy kaayo ta mga babae who remain to be faithful despite of everything. But the choice is within our hands if we continue being martyr or choose to find what will really makes us happy. Go out na lang with your friends or with your baby alone. In a long run, makakita ra ka ug someone who really deserve your love.

[balolot]

^^ sakto jud c lovely_chic, pro mas maayo TS na hinay2 lang, yaw lang sad pagdali, time ra jud mag igo kun when & where ka maka kita ug mr. right for you.

hope in god's time mahimamat na nimo c mr. right for you. god bless TS.

[CASSANDRA19]

hayyyy...hope TS makakita nta sa ato right someone....kapoy ayung mga laki na mangitag lain oi...maayu pa single nalang kaysa magsakit ato dughan..heheh..Anyways, keep yourself busy TS and find things nalang na mkahappy nimo in a little way

[sporty898]

hi TS, ive been to that. in the middle of our happy married life, i found out that my husband cheated on me. i dont know what to do that time, its either let him go or fight for him. im thinking sa among mga anak, what will be their future kung magbuwag me sa akong husband? what i did is, i give him second chance (actually his nth chance), and im glad that he changed a lot. hes been a good and responsible father.

pero TS kung dili na jud madala, you have to let go nlng. useless to stay in a relationship kung dili naka happy. hope you'll find Mr. Right....

[esprugodoys]

that's how i feel right now and it's really hard jud sis...it's like I am torn more than a hundred times. Men are born to be polygamous and luoy kaayo ta mga babae who remain to be faithful despite of everything. But the choice is within our hands if we continue being martyr or choose to find what will really makes us happy. Go out na lang with your friends or with your baby alone. In a long run, makakita ra ka ug someone who really deserve your love.

ARE polygamous but life has never made any exceptions amongst us.. who and who are not to be.
it is in each one of us on how we construct our faith and trust in our own selves.. know yourself well, learn your weaknesses before getting involved into something you don't even know of what's to come..... and then put the blame on other people when all else fail. that doesn't make us any better as a person.

@to TS
talk it out.. ayaw ipa agi sa mga pamuyboy.. ingon ko.. swerte ka.... maayo gani.. ug unsa p... in the end you just bought up something that would even hurt each of you. it's spilling gas over a fire. don't resort to things that would even make things more worse.. and you gotta be careful of taking each step as you might get burned by your act. 6 yrs is never easy.. 3 yrs... 2 yrs... even 1 yr in a relationship.. how about the 30? 50? trust me sis you're not the only one who feels being cursed in a relationship. there's a lot more out there who suffered much even worse than you and yet they were still able to fix things.. the hardships, pain, sorrow, tears, they are always there to remind us that we are still human not a measurement of true love or even happiness...

[yvonne6]

thanks sa tanan ni comment. ang ako lang kahadlukan is moabot ang time nga na use na lang hinuon ko sa shitty treatment sa taw nako. i want to walk out from this dysfunctional relationship and keep my dignity. mao na lang ni ang nahabilin nako karon. i did my share of sacrifices, 6 years is not a joke. and even him, he admits he is the worst bf i ever have. walay problema nako, dugay nako nakahibalo nga i picked a trash and thought i can turn it into a gold, it will never happen....i guess my fault. dah oi, basta, mana, mana, as in mana gyud...

[lovely_chic]

thanks sa tanan ni comment. ang ako lang kahadlukan is moabot ang time nga na use na lang hinuon ko sa shitty treatment sa taw nako. i want to walk out from this dysfunctional relationship and keep my dignity. mao na lang ni ang nahabilin nako karon. i did my share of sacrifices, 6 years is not a joke. and even him, he admits he is the worst bf i ever have. walay problema nako, dugay nako nakahibalo nga i picked a trash and thought i can turn it into a gold, it will never happen....i guess my fault. dah oi, basta, mana, mana, as in mana gyud...

same jud tah sis wui...

[ondoy]

pag puyo lngsa uy,Mr right will come one day basin mka kita kag lain tapos nibalik imong ex for good unta or ma realize pa gyapon nimu love pa gyapon nmu imo ex after all.samot ka libog imong gubot.
concentrate wiht your career nd ur family lngsa, pa bugnaw sa bah

[yvonne6]

wala man ko mangita ug lain sa pagka karon but i will allow myself to meet other people, make friends maybe with opposite *** para at least naay maminaw sa akong mga drama or naay mopakatawa nako. dili ko gusto mag mukmok kay naay tendency nga mag sige ko ug huna2 kung unsay iyang mga nabuhat nako. karon, naay usa ka taw diha, from here, nga ni offer nga mag gym mi together or invite siya nako sa mga events nila. unta nice gyud siya...friendship raman sad iya gi offer. kinsa man ko nga mobalibad.