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    Default HOPING with REGRETS


    naa koi SOMEONE. ngkaila mi last year pa through facebook
    it's almost 4months nami ngkaila and our situation kai...
    pagkaila namo, naa xai uyab then dugay na sila but walai klaro
    so ako sad kai gsakyan2 ra nko siya kai ngkig higala mn siya nko
    then 24/7 mi gsige ug commu so murag na develop ko nia
    unya ang akong concern ato na time kai naa pa siyay uyab
    DILI sad nuon mi kaila sa girl and we have no connections pd
    sa pagkdugay... ngkbuwag sila sa iyang uyab and ngka uyab mi for like 2-3weeks
    then sa pagka uyab namo kai ntingala lang ko nga after sa among 2nd date kai kiwaw na ang iyang feelings towards nko. pagka gabie ana kai nchat siya nako and ana siya na
    "is it ok nga friends lang sa ta? i tried to love you but i cant. sorry kau"
    i agreed to him but i said "basin nglibog pka so maybe pwede pta mag ilaila"
    nsugot siya sa akong gingon. so as time goes by, xge ghpon mi kita and contact
    im still hoping nga malove ko nia. but nabot na sa point nga ni ingon siya ug maski iyang mga barkada na gsamokan na ang SOMEONE nko. he even insulted me and treated me like i mean nothing to him. nga murag dli ko taw bah. i dont get the point nganung ingana siya nko. sakit sad bia nga mahatag nimu tanan sa usa ka laki unya ingana lang iyang gingon nko. sakit pd sa akong part as a girl. i gave up my friends and siya akong gpili. then wala lang sad siya ka appreciate ana. kpila njd ko nhilak and still murag wala ra siya.

    karon naa siyay lain kahilambigit.
    ingana lang d.i ksayun nga mklimtan or ma itchapwera ko?

    UNSA MAN AKONG DAPAT BUHATON pra mkget over and mka move on ko ani akong situation karon?

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    Dont Look back when u decided to move on.

    Detach everything that has connection with u.
    Start from there....

    moving on is not easy coz u have to accept, understand each situation from the moment u tangled with him till the end of the story.

    When u felt u are weak, then be weak but learn to get UP.
    Get up in a sense u have to see friends.
    Mingle some friends para dili ka ka remmber sa sakit.
    Do things na ma busy ka dai..
    and learn to love ur shattered self and mobilize everything to become whole again.

    Its not easy to move on, but dont let depression maneuvered from what you felt right now.
    its a matter of choice and state of mind.

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    u have to decide na sis... dont let him destroy you...

    talk to God.. God will never leave you... he will help you move on.. just beliv in him..

    God bless you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by annerhexian View Post
    Dont Look back when u decided to move on.

    Detach everything that has connection with u.
    Start from there....

    moving on is not easy coz u have to accept, understand each situation from the moment u tangled with him till the end of the story.

    When u felt u are weak, then be weak but learn to get UP.
    Get up in a sense u have to see friends.
    Mingle some friends para dili ka ka remmber sa sakit.
    Do things na ma busy ka dai..
    and learn to love ur shattered self and mobilize everything to become whole again.

    Its not easy to move on, but dont let depression maneuvered from what you felt right now.
    its a matter of choice and state of mind.
    - @anne: yeah ka gets man ko sa imong point, pero ga libog jud ko nganu sayun ra kau niya ibasura akong g buhat nya..ive tried nako mag move on pero cya ra jud akong naa sa huna2x.huhuhuh

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    i know this may sound a clich'e but there are a lot of fishes in the ocean... Do not dwell on him, its not your loss its his. YOu must love yourself first before you can indulge in any relationship... If you have younger brother or sister, spend time with them as well as your parents...these are the people who really loves you.
    If you don't learn to love yourself, you are going to be used and abused...DEVELOP YOUR MINDSETTING...LEARN TO DRAW THE LINE...REMEMBER: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND SMART...GOD LOVES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY LOVES YOU...TAKE CARE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by youme19 View Post
    - @anne: yeah ka gets man ko sa imong point, pero ga libog jud ko nganu sayun ra kau niya ibasura akong g buhat nya..ive tried nako mag move on pero cya ra jud akong naa sa huna2x.huhuhuh
    Ga libog ka.. please dont do that sweetie..
    Its his character.... and its his personality.
    and if u keep asking the why's to us
    Obviously, I cant answer that
    Even U, cudnt answer it..so why stuck up with all the why's..

    Let it go...let it go.....dont cling too much or this will break u slowly....

    If you keep dwelling the confusing part.
    Then u cant move on, no matter how u tried it.

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    hi sis faetz ana oi..

    mao ra jud ni..

    u dnt have to let go in order to move on...for u will learn to let go ra as u move on along the way..

    heheh simple na libug gamay logic ba pero effective...

    at the end of the day naa ra japun na nimo tanan..

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    forgive me but I have to say this, di man sad sa ni judge ko nimu sis ha? Don't you think it's more or less like a karma on your part as a girl? Diba the guy had a relationship katong nag ila-ila pa mo? then it's a bit off the limit kay you said nga 24/7 mo nag commu? I mean, luoy sad baya ang uyab sa laki without the knowledge nga mao na diay ni nahitabo. You don't communicate with someone 24/7 if you're not interested, dba?

    As for the guy, you don't need to waste your time na. See what he did to you? Mura bag nahug ra kag rebound at the end of the line niya ingnan pakag samok? Why settle for this kind of treatment sis when you know you deserve more than this? Ayaw nana siya kontaka sis. Pasagdie siya. Sure kong iya ra sad ng ilisdan ang iyang ka char2 karon soon.

    God bless TS!

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    Quote Originally Posted by arvinbenitez View Post
    u have to decide na sis... dont let him destroy you...

    talk to God.. God will never leave you... he will help you move on.. just beliv in him..

    God bless you...
    -yes permi man ko mo pray ni god..as of now im confused and hurt..thanks sa pag advice

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    Quote Originally Posted by annerhexian View Post
    Ga libog ka.. please dont do that sweetie..
    Its his character.... and its his personality.
    and if u keep asking the why's to us
    Obviously, I cant answer that
    Even U, cudnt answer it..so why stuck up with all the why's..

    Let it go...let it go.....dont cling too much or this will break u slowly....

    If you keep dwelling the confusing part.
    Then u cant move on, no matter how u tried it.
    yeah i guess i should start letting go of him,, nahan man ko maka move on kay d ko ganahn ma stay rako permi ani.. nya nahan ko iprove nako nya nga dli ra cya lake sa world nya d sad ko weak..

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