dear daddy

[yvonne6]

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dear daddy,

imo ning anak nisulat? nganong imo man ko gipasagdan? ngano imo man ko gikalimtan? ngano man imong gibinuangan akong inahan? wala ka nangarap ug pamilya para nako? karon na daku nako, mas nasakitan ko sa imong gibuhat. everytime naay affair sa skul, kami ra ni mama ang kauban. sahay, ako ra kay work pa si mama. kahibalo baka kung unsa kasakit magtan aw sa uban nga kumpleto ilang pamilya? nagpakiluoy si mama nimo several times to stay with us, pero imong gipili ang imong kabit. karon, wala gani ko ka eskwela sa college kay dili ka afford si mama. unsa may sala nako para ako ang mag suffer sa imong mga binuhatan asa man ang imong kasingkasing? asa man ang imong kunsensya? ang uban amahan dinha, magsakripisyo para sa ilang mga anak. unta makabasa ka ani ug malamdagan ang imong hunahuna ug matarug ang imong kasingkasing.

[blank0000]

i symphatize wd u sis...i haTE irresponsible fathers!tuga2x ug himo den dli d.i kabuhi

[nitwit]

i feel so sorry for the situation your now into maam. i hope your dad is gonna be soon enlightened.keep us updated please.

[Sol_Itaire]

don't count on his straightening up coz it might never happen. you just have to play the cards you're dealt with. focus on what you have and work from there.

[ces1234]

i felt the same pain coz i've been into this, i just did well in my studies, finished and have a good job, and i really thought it woud make me happy seeing him in his hardest times, pero and ending, nitabang lang gihapon ko niya ky naluoy ko....coz even if he has hurt us galore, i wouldn't have been here w/o him..

[WEI?]

dear daddy,

imo ning anak nisulat? nganong imo man ko gipasagdan? ngano imo man ko gikalimtan? ngano man imong gibinuangan akong inahan? wala ka nangarap ug pamilya para nako? karon na daku nako, mas nasakitan ko sa imong gibuhat. everytime naay affair sa skul, kami ra ni mama ang kauban. sahay, ako ra kay work pa si mama. kahibalo baka kung unsa kasakit magtan aw sa uban nga kumpleto ilang pamilya? nagpakiluoy si mama nimo several times to stay with us, pero imong gipili ang imong kabit. karon, wala gani ko ka eskwela sa college kay dili ka afford si mama. unsa may sala nako para ako ang mag suffer sa imong mga binuhatan asa man ang imong kasingkasing? asa man ang imong kunsensya? ang uban amahan dinha, magsakripisyo para sa ilang mga anak. unta makabasa ka ani ug malamdagan ang imong hunahuna ug matarug ang imong kasingkasing.

thanks for posting sis....i feel your pain!
Lessons to be learned...

-WEI?

[jhaness]

i symphatize wd u sis...i haTE irresponsible fathers!tuga2x ug himo den dli d.i kabuhi

mao jud... ngano kaha naay taw mga ingon ani??..

[yokyok]

naa gyuy mga taw nga ingon ana... unta malamdagan sila...

[maddox_pitt]

that's too mean... nganong namay mga laki makaya biyaan ang ilang anak noh? faet

[emow]

@ TS: I think same tag situation. I haven't have a dad in my entire life. Never saw him. My mom said he left us when i was just 6 months. Now i'm 25. I never find it in me to search for him. But I feel your pain. There were many times i was saddened because of the situation of my family. I was sad when my mom had to work and was unable to attend some important events in my life. But i never hoped for a father. I was contented with what I have and we were happy. So don't fret. You'll be just fine. Just treasure what you have right now, your mom because she needs your support. One thing I learn in life, is to strengthen yourself regardless of your situation. Everything is temporary as long as you keep moving on. I do understand the resentment you have for your father but you will be just imprisoning yourself. My mom moved on with her life. My dad never supported me. My life, education and other needs were solely shouldered by my mom's sacrifice. Just keep on moving on. Someday, you might see this as a blessing in disguise.