how would i handle this?

[werty]

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ok, for those who have followed my post this week i have come to again another troublesome situation....

ok since my EX has bf already(i think dats why she left me), and she said she cant love me anymore than a frend... and she keeps on telling me na its her fault and that she knows na i can never forgive her... (bt would want me as a friend),.. so how will i handle this situation? should i accept what happened and be friends? if i do, does it mean na it was ok what she did to me and dat im forgiving her already? or should i go and "KASABA" silang duha for taking my love away... or should i just leave it alone, let it be, and never to entertain any conversations from them...

honestly, whatever happened to them, i rili still damn love her soo much(and i almost killed myself for loosing her) and im rili willing to accept her if she'll return(i hope)... im just so confused to as in what to do with this... it rili hurts, but i cant force her now

pls give me advice... i nid it today if pwede

[werty]

any suggestions pls?

[werty]

so should i make peace with them both? or should i just let it be no matter how i rili still feel for her...

[BeoR]

that's a very hard situation... first I think she betrayed you which would be a valid reason for dumping her as a friend.... on the other hand, EX GF's are very good friends to turn to when you need someone to talk to (as long as she's mature) when the need arises... it's your call, but personally I'd accept the situation and accept her friendship... it is much better to part as friends...

[werty]

beor, what shell still make contact with me? like maybe business stuff or something...

[BeoR]

just put things behind you and move on... consider her as a new acquaintance and try not to show that you still love her like crazy... put some doubt on her during the first stages of your new friendship (she might just abuse the fact that you are still crazy about her) and slowly love someone else...if you we're good friends during the span of your love relationship, then maintaining a healthy contact with her is good...

[Nezumix22]

I think it's better to have her as a friend... sooner or later both of you will accept and move on.. let nature take its course.. don't lose her again by rejecting her offer of friendship.. and does her bf really matter.. i mean she only wants you as a friend.. why are you planning to steal her?

[Guapo_Gamay]

your still in the dark, wake up and shake it up and open your eyes to REALITY..

all of the advise here is sufficient enough, pero ang problema ikaw gid, dili ka maka accept sa tanan, sorry kong pranka ra kaayo , no harm intended bay

[werty]

ya, i know im hard in accpeting this REALITY... its just na wala koy nahimo gud about... im just posting everything here so that by the time this same event will happen, i will already know how to deal with it....

[EarlZ]

in time maka kita rasad ka ug lain.. its in your state of mind raman na bai.. dont think about you love her pa. if you learn to see her as a friend dli na gyud na sakit and dli nasad samok. ive been through that, it was hard for me to accept her as a friend. per0 after a while na dawat raman gyud nako.. nya sometimes we go out as frieds pa gali. per0 i know i will only love her as a friend gyud. ang reason sa ako was age gap ( i sure naka post nako ani) she was 3yrs and 1 day older than me.