unsa inyo ika advise ani guys?
wala kauyon in what way?
they is a saying, we cant please everybody... but tell me.. unsa klasi na templa naa ka na wala man cea kaayun?
BRO...normal gyud na sa parents pero ayaw gyud kahadlok kay kutob rana cla storya ug insulto...ipakita gyud nila nga tinarong na imoha...ipakita gyud pirme nga tinarong...pangayo katahuran maski snub kaau cla nimo...bahala na...time comes maka realize cla nga tarong diay ka then maamigo rana nimo iyang family...believe me...agi nako ani...mas gubot to akoa kay gi ti-onan nako pusil sa igsoon...pero nikatawa lang ko...wa man ghapon nahitabo...mao nga ayaw gyud surrender...unless binuang rana imoha..then its not worth magpakamatay ka...hehe...
Sacrifices are necessary in any relationship, because let's face it, without sacrifice there would be no fruitful benefits. This goes for any aspect in one's life (school, work, marriage, etc). It may mean conceding to go to an event you're really not fond of attending. As long as you balance your time and priorities, and are given a head's up about the event, there should be no reason for you not being able to attend.It is really up to you, but honestly are they going to be the one's making your decisions for you? Do you want to live by their standards constantly. Honestly Myself I have been in a serious relationship for a 4 years. My Boyfriends parents hate me. I'm not sure why, but never the less me and my boyfriend have always pulled through in the end. Sure it has hurt our relationship a couple of times, but in the end it was worth it. I think it really depends if you are in this for the long hall and it also depends if you want to try to solve the problem between your parents and your girlfriend or just let it slide. My suggestion is if that if you trully like this girl alot and want it to work out well between her and your parents, you should try to get them to bond, maybe some activity, or if they are not comfertable yet, maybe just reveal some qualities that you like about her, and maybe they will see it in her also. Well bud, I hope it works out for you. Trust me I know how hard it gets.
The descision is ultimately yours, but having said that, your folks have a lot of years of experience between them, so it's worth considering their opinion.Ask them (or ask yourself) why they "hate" her? Is is because she looks or dresses a certain way? Is it from ignorance because she's a different class to you, or from a different culture? Or is it for a more profound reason, like she's mean to animals, or she fights with people or has chemical dependancies?..You're the one who makes the final choice, but listen to their reasons for not liking her and consider whether their reasons are valid. Maybe your folks are just narrow-minded because she's a goth, or some other superficial reason. But if they point out that she shoplifts or compulsively tells lies, they might have a point, and could save you some heartache in the future...
naganu man diay ug wala ka-uyon?
imung parents diay mo-minyo ana imung uyab?....
Show them that they are wrong and you are right in chosing your GF................
As if ang inyo feeling dili mutual?Sagdi lang gud if wala ka-uyon ang parents sa imo uyab taman ra bitaw na sila diha, ky naa diay sila mahimo sa imo? Sulayi ug buntis imo uyab pre awa igka-kita sa apo labi na ug gwapo/gwapa feeling close namo ana
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it's normal. don't worryhehe
it's normal ra jud sa parents nga mo snub but doesn't mean wala cla kauyon, they're just trying to measure unsa jud ka tinuod ana nga girl kung imo cya e fyt for them then later on time will heal and they can realized u deserved to love and beloved....
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