ganahan cya makigbalik

[jbo]

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naa ko gf before for almost 4years. dili cya taga cebu bt diri lng cya ni skwela. pag graduate namo ni transfer cya manila para magreview sa ilang board. ever since nibalhin cya didto nagka gamay jud ang time na magstorya mi. then one morning, nitawag ko sa iyang fone and i think she accidentally answered the call without knowing it. i heard her and a guy talking. that was 5:30am in the morning so most probably shes still in bed with a guy. then after mga 5min she ended the call. after an hour nitawag cya, and i told her "if naa ka gitago ingna nlng ko" and then she said na "im pregnant". grbe jud to kasakit uy. i ended the conversation dayon kay sakit kaayo. i just txted her na dli na jud nko cya maforgive. and after that we had no communication na jud. 2 yrs after, nka move on nko and naforgive na nko cya. she sent me a message through friendster na what i know about her daw was not true and dili daw cya pregnant nor married but nagka bf jud daw cya sa manila. then nitxt cya na ganahan daw cya makipagkita. nisugot ko makipagkita para ma end nko whatever we had before formally. but then she said na she really wanted makigbalik. i told her lng na i cant trust her na. then ingon cya na mag flight atendant sa daw cya sa qatar for two years then after, mubalik jud daw cya for me. ingon pa jud cya na in the end kami ra daw gihapon magkadayon. until now cge gihapon cya text nko whenever mu land cila ug usa ka place. i only replied to her txt mesages twice. grbe jud nko ka inlove niya before but after what she did, i dont think i can trust her again. what do u guys think?

[treize]

puslan mang naka move on na ka, aw ngita nalang og lain, kay og makigbalik pa ka adto mogara nasad to og makakita og lain... tsk! tsk! tsk!

[darkraven]

once a thief always a thief....

if trust na ang mawala bro, lisod na pagbalik ana...

ibutang nato nga mag balik mo, mahimotang kaha ka if la siya nganhi sa atoa... flight atendant raba kaha nah siya...

[maitoots]

i think it's better to let things go the way they are now nlang bro.. you have moved on nman pd and maybe.. just maybe you are not meant to be. lisud na ang relationship nga wlay trust esp mag LDR rba mo since she works abroad. trust is one of the biggest foundation of a good relationship but if wla na ang foundation dali ra ba cya maguba... if it will only end up ra ghapon sa another buwag don't waste nlang your time and feelings.. anyway in the end if kamo ra ghapon, time and chances will always find a way good luck

[Maikeru]

As much as possible I don't want to place a tag on your ex. Because there are people who change over the course of time. And realized what truly is important to them. That is why I really wanted to say, give her a chance. But it is a fact that a relationship without trust don't work. So I say, it is better to trust your instincts.

[jbo]

thanks sa mga nag reply.. as of now i dont have plans jud na makigbalik niya coz naa na ko lain ganahan. grbe man jud gud niya ka confident when she said na kami ra gihapon magkadayon. im just enjoying the fact na nag apas cya nko coz before ako jud pirmi mag apas niya and magpakaluoy. nindot ang feeling but dli nindot paminawon.. hehe

[BackBeat]

never consider na ingon ana lng kadali niya ma regain ang imoha trust.. it is something to earn. and as of what happened, there's no reason pa nga makigbalik ka.. my situation right now is somehow naa pagkapareha..

[annerhexian]

oi dude wake up.. dili pod ikaw ang masakitan.. cea pod unta!

forgive and forget na man kaha ka.. and the trust is already broken..

the way ka mo story bro morag naa pa mn ang feelings jud pero ang saleg man ang lisod ibalik kaysa feelings..


mao buhata ang usa ka butang na maka au para sa imo self nasad...

[julz23]

lisod na pabalikon ang baha paingon sa bukid tol, para lang naku..

[luke0917]

ayaw nlng guro bro kay if makakita na sad na cya ug lain, back to basics nasad ka,--maguol, muhilak ug uban pa, hehehe. at least now nga nka move on nka, move on nlng jud.