You can let go now Daddy...

[pAliTi.kO]

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For those whose dads are now in peace, what's the hardest part of letting them go?

Our Papa left us last Nov.5, 2009.. It was the most painful thing that happened to us. He was such a great man, and it seemed it was too early for him to leave us.. He taught us so many things, things that molded us to how we are today.. I never really told him how much I thank him for all the things he'd done for me personally, because it was so soon, we never thought it would happen.. I guess that, still, is the thing that makes it so hard for me to let him go.. I'll miss his stories, his lullabies, and the way how his only presence gives us such comfort and peace...... He may be gone, but he's principles and memories will always be with us...

[m!nyanG]

share pd mo..asyd kang paliti.ko...

niwiz,,sorry to hear about ur dad...

[RainDrizzle07]

At least you are lucky coz you were able to spend some time with your dad, and your dad is with you until he passed away. ^_^

My dad left us when I was two. ^_^

And he left us for good last year.

Guess I will always wonder how it grow up with a father. ^_^

I did cry on his wake and during his burial coz well same as you are I was not able to really say thank you, coz if not for him I wouldn't be here in this world.

As of the letting go part.. I have already learned it, since I was a kid. ^_^

In time..you will.. at least you do have memories for you to remember him. ^_^

Enjoy!!!

[pAliTi.kO]

^^ yeah, lucky for us we have memories na pwede mabalikan.. it must have felt awful for you sis pag-adto sa iyang wake.. you cried for a person you called dad but you barely knew him

[WEI?]

na touch jud ko sa imu story sis...

-WEI?

[RainDrizzle07]

^^ yeah, lucky for us we have memories na pwede mabalikan.. it must have felt awful for you sis pag-adto sa iyang wake.. you cried for a person you called dad but you barely knew him

yes.very weird, lol then my half siblings were there, bali he resides in ormoc nmn together with his 2nd wife and family.. ^_^ then when we knew na he passed away, kay we went there, my mom, my bro and me. ^_^

so, during the burial.. while cryin, I was like, "okey, so I barely knew you, what I know from mom, is that if ever you have been together I will grew up to be a really spoiled brat, at least that is what mom always say ^_^, at least from what she says I knew in your way you must have love me then, love me and my brother.. ^_^..don't worry I did not hold any grudge, I am even thankful coz I am born in this world ^_^, but, well I knew deep inside I will always wonder how to grow up with a father. ^_^"

Unya dali ra kay nahuman akong hilak.

Let me just add though, from what I have understand, it is us "alive" that was not able to really let go.. ^_^ when someone so dear to us passed away.. ^_^

[li_29phl]

maypa ka sis kay buotan imong papa..ako akong mama ang unang nibiya sa kalibutan when i was 6 yrs old and i wish ako untang papa ang namatay kay wala juy gugma among amahan namo! nka asawa pa jud ug bati kau ug batasan! grabe akong childhood trauma nga naagian..mao nang salute jud kau ko sa usa ka amahan nga mau! wish i had one...

[katiegurl]

my dad,left us unexpectedly pod last april 2009,(holy week). It was so sudden, he was diagnozed of abdominal aneurysm, after a pain sa tummy na di cya kalakaw,and about to be operated cya,but ga cardiac arrest cya and nag coma for 2 days....we told him nalang,na he can go, its ok...dili man gud lalim diay mag tan-aw galisod imo ginikanan,if anak ka. though painful kay dili namo magkita. I know he is happier now, and believe that when my time arrives, he will be there to met me someday.When I whispered to his ear na, im ok, and thank him for loving my baby very much, and assured him na we will be ok, he finally went, 30 mins lang after...mura mao ra iya gi wait.

[junmar4]

Pagkamatay sa ako papa was very unexpected. Gihilamtan lang sya then went to the hospital for a check up and namatay on the morning of next day. Lisud dawatun since I am close to him. Ikug sa papa man gud. Samut pa akong mama pirte ka nagsalig ni papa. Though it was more than 15 years, pero mingaw gihapon oi.

[Adamot]

at any point in time talk to them, i still had my father now. pero di magdugay padulong man gyud na. im proud na we had already a heart to hear talk before. and we always chit chat kung mosuroy ko sa balay. plan pud nako to buy him a ticket to a basketball or boxing game. and always say i love you when you see him. bisan badlongon. he made me what i am today... thanks dad and i love you...