Choosing between him and your work?

[esotericlove]

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istoryans,
If you and your special friend meet and you are already in your certain work. ANd then suddenly after few months he wants you to stop what you're doing. Parang gi pa choose ka nya between him and your work. The girl in this situation mi answer na, nakaila ko nimo na ani ako work and u know ga enjoy ko sa ako work. If mag stop ko sana kaya kong buhion sa man parang pahapyaw lang and suddenly nabugnaw na dayon ang man and slowly nawala sya. Ang girl na hurt syempre. Peru ang work sa girl is parang nasa corporate world.. ANg girl la maka gets why kaya ana ang gusto sa man.. Kamo unsa inyo opinyon ani..until now love nya peru naka move on na sya.. peru maka think lang sya sometimes why man kaha. They did not talk na with each other for one year now..

[beyee]

i may not know the whole story but the mere fact that the guy is asking the girl to quit her job is simply an insecure dimwit (pardon my term)... even a person who has half the brain can tell that..

if the person really and truly cares for you, he would support u all the way of whatever field ur in as long as it doesn't bring out the worst in you..

Our work simply sets us apart from our partner, it gives a sense of identity of who we really are and this brings us emotional satisfaction of our being.. and now if the guy can't see that then he's totally selfish... sad to say that...

[inna-iks]

^^ Parehas mi ug githink ni Beyee. Hehehehe. ;]

[anjerika]

i think one does not need to choose between the two. coz if love jud niya ang girl, he will understand and accept na ing-ana ang gina buhat sa girl. and true love doesn't require you to sacrifice your own dreams para lang makauban ang guy

[Blackjellybean27]

nglibog pd ko why the man wanted the girl to quit her work. Only thing i can think of is insecure ang man sa mga officemates na male cguro ng girl. or let's say if the reason does not really involve that, then it could mean that the man was insecure sa position ng girl sa job, or something like that. or maybe just maybe he just wanted to test the girl how special he is to her. ay ambot, naglibog ko oi. hehehe.

[esotericlove]

heheheh maski ako til now dpa nako ma think why ya ko gi ingon ato..Sometimes ako balikan ang mga panahon when we were still together kung unsa jud ako sayop. And ako pa gani giingnan na ani nako when we meet and know na nya na here ko happy and ang dpat ma happy sya for me. But ang iya gitubag na the way daw ko mutubag nagpasabot na mas palabion jud nko ang work instead nya.. hahays...makahilak kog tagok..

[KASAAC]

tsk tsk beyee is right jud... duh the guy is not worth it may pag i sugba siya hahaha

[esotericlove]

hahahha kana pagod pagka sugba bro. whew!

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

ka selfish ba wui...f love nmo ang tao, u dnt let him/her choose between u and his/her career...u can always find ways to work things out and support each other...

[esotericlove]

yeah, selfish jud and he just left me confused and hurt..