My X's friend

[chinody]

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pls close mods.....

[Sol_Itaire]

I think bagay mong duha.

[chemhakz1025]

lisod lagi ni imong situation bro..very complicated and very serious ang consequences ani if masakpan mo sa iyang uyab..i guess,everything will have to depend on you..if di kaya magpalayo,then kayaha ang pagcontrol sa imong self..with that i mean learn to know where are your limits to your "relationship" with the girl..if ang girl ganahan pud nimo..its better she ends her present relationship first properly and then give some time before mo mo-go into a relationship..lisod man sad magbuwag sila sa iyang uyab then kamo dayon..kay kana,gubot ray labas ana bro..

and im basing this on experience,if i were to put myself into your situation..im the "bf" of the girl,na biyaan lang for another guy..so i know how it feels like if ako ang "bf" sa imong ganahan na girl karon if ever magbuwag sila because of you,and it is very devastating..

you can keep having the "special friendship" pero dapat you should know the limits para walay gubot..but you cant keep that thing going for a long time..ang girl pud should decide kung kinsa jud siya mas happy..and should do it the right way para hapsay tanan..

[dKyOrt22]

huwata nlng bro... and gudluck...

[Egoist]

hmmm lisud naa man ta gi.ingung respect, naa pud ta g.ingung fight for your love, naa pud toy ingun nila kung ang bae/laki makuhag laing bae/laki nga naa pa clay karelasyon dakog posibilad nga mabaslan ra hhehehe decide lang bro para di tantong lisud hehehe

[.bullet.]

first of all, how's her relationship with her boyfriend?

if it's all well and good, then i suggest you start to put some space between the two of you. relationships aren't fate, aren't destiny, they are decisions are right now, i think you're clouding her mind. di pa na niya mafeel ang tension kay nag enjoy pa siya nimo and sooner or later either of these things could happen: (1) her boyfriend will find it out, or (2) she'll come to a point that she'll fall madly in love with you and will be caught in between you and her boyfriend, a decision that would be so hard to make. you have to know your limits.

if their relationship is shaky, advice her to fix and clear things up with her boyfriend first. still, keep a little distance so she could think clearly as to what to do. you're influencing her and let her make a decision out from her self, not because of you. respect her boyfriend and their relationship.

but if wala juy ayo ilang relasyon, then go for it.

take this quote from bob ong: "kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa. kasi di ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga yung una." it's a case to case basis though and is not applicable all the time but who knows, you can apply it to you/her.

[destinee]

lisud na bro.. gugmang gubot daghan masakitan..
platonic lang sa mo.. yaw lang sa kau mo pagkita aron dili mograbeh ang feelings.. lisud na committed ang usa..

[bbnescia]

I think bagay mong duha.

ka payter sad ug tambag ni sis sol oi...ehehehe

back sa topic, kay i think mas better nga friends mo..kesa magka uyab mo nga sa tan-aw nako ma complicated ang inyo sitwasyon, kay friend sya sa imong x then naa pa jd siya'y uyab.kung makahibaw to iyang uyab nga gibuwagan siya tungod nimo syempre malain to nya katong x nimo kung makahibaw siya nga nagkauyab mo sa iyang friend malain pud to siya kay lain man jd paminawon nga silang duha nag-agi sa imong kinabuhi.nya basta lain jd.mas maayo pag friends nalang sa mo ron, kung magkauyab man mo dili pa karon. basin nadala ra mo sa inyong gibati kay sige mo kuyog kuyog.

[st@ph@n]

show some respect nlng bro sa ilang relationship. Ikaw sd d k ganahan if ikaw ang naa sa foot sa iya BF then naa mag-samok2x dba. So better accept it nalng na naa jud sya BF. It's not bad to wait but give them space for now coz ur interupting..

[chinody]

magpalayo nalang jud ko guys... sakto inyong gi ingon.. sayop jud nako nganu ni buhat ko ani... i dont know what has gotten into me, nganu akoang nabuhat ni... complicated jud kaau.. it just feels right whenever magkuog mi although i know its wrong.. palayo najud ko.... mu layo naman jud ko unta ato na time but ni ingon man gud siya na ayaw ko byai... actually dli naman siya happy sa iyahang relationship ato na guy.. maikog lang siya mo buwag gud kai bago raman niya nauyab..

ang akoa lang dli ganahan gud kai 1 time ni ingon ang girl na grabe daw kaau ka love siya sa iyahang bf na to the point dli ma control sa iyahang bf iyahang emotion and ma pasakitan niya ang girl... naka ingon gud ko na dli mana sakto. tas shagit2xan lang daw siya bsag daghan tao... mao man na naka drive jud nako na dli sad jud nako siya byaan... if ever sad magkabuwag sila dli sab nako panguyaban dretso ang girl.. tagaan sad nako ug time..