help! Im falling out of love

[redcheek]

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Can somebody please advise me with this? I lost the feeling but I just can't simply leave him because we are married and we have children. He is a good father to my children but not so good husband. We argue often because personality differences. What will I do to bring the love back?

[yvonne6]

how old are ur children? have u asked him what he isnt happy about with your marriage? maybe its not just him. maybe he feels that there is something that u r not providing him too? kung personality differences lang, that's petty and workable. i think mas worst pa gani nang ang cause sa problem is the man being a womanizer, having bad vices and irresponsible. ikaw raman sad nag ingon nga good father siya sa imong mga kids, i think deep down inside him naa pud na siyay desire to keep the family together for the kids. talk to him

[redcheek]

My children are only 3 and 2 yrs old. we tried to talk about it and tried working it out already. But it never works and it gets worst. Although he has a job but Mama's boy man gud cya and cge lng salig sa iya parents coz may kaya man cla. for that reason, I can never see a man in him. Murag ako man ang lalaki sa amo family ky ako man mu himo always ug decisions. That is why I fall out of love and I wanted someone new. Someone who can make me feel a woman. I know its a mistake to feel this way but I am only human. I hope everybody would understand.

[alexamae]

try to go away and do soul searching. will you miss him when he is not around? probably you are just sad about him so Momma's boy.
yes, sometime's u need to set your priorities, either you going and find your own happiness or keeping your family intact for your kids.
you also talk to your husband, if he also wants to leave then atleast the feeling is mutual

[babychique]

i think, joining up in a marriage counseling would help..
bring out the love..try to talk things out in a calm way..
since ur married nah..theres no backing off.. try to solve what has been missing..
save your family.. the children would most likely be affected f ever mgbuwag mu

[Anydowro]

Falling out of love is the beginning of true love. After all, love is a verb. Just do love and feelings will come back

[joan_of_arc324]

think of the good things that he has done for u and try airing your sentiments to your husband sad, maybe if he knows that you are falling out of love because you are not seeing the man in him, he will step up.

[maitoots]

having another man to make you feel a real woman might not be the real solution to your problem. if you are not really happy na with the marriage, talk to himm maybe leaving is really an option.. we all have a choice so why stay if it's hurting you already. but before you think of yourself, think of the children first. the moment that you decided to become a mother you already lose half of yourself. dli na ikaw ang important karn, the children is.. esp they are still to young to understand. talk to your husband if not about you and what you feel at least man lang abou the kids....

[redcheek]

think of the good things that he has done for u and try airing your sentiments to your husband sad, maybe if he knows that you are falling out of love because you are not seeing the man in him, he will step up.

He knows already that I cant see a man in him because of his strong attachment to his mother. But he would only say that he cant change and would never want to. That's the saddest part. I feel that I am not important to him. He doesnt even care how I feel.

[yvonne6]

if that is the case, pag buwag na lang gyud mo. kung ang imong bana doesnt even care unsa imong gi feel it means that he doesnt care about your feelings at all. its going to be hard for the kids, so be prepared. ang imong responsibility modaku...u have to continuously try to make the kids understand that its not because of them and you love them but u also have to be happy and grow in a relationship. pero kung mao rani iyang problema, murag dili baya kaau daku, personally speaking ha. there are a lot of responsible man when it comes to making money but babaedor and sugarol. we cant really have it all geng...so think many times before making a decision. there is something good about this guy because u married him, start from there