when your mind says goodbye but your heart says i cant

[mon3tt3]

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ingon nila naa sa ibabaw ang utok gibutang para maoy dapat matuman... but things always seem easier said than done...

how can you let go of something that isnt worth holding on when your heart cant?

[sweetsophie]

it happened to me and its so painful of letting someone go even if my heart says no. It was so ironic on my part coz i was so deeply inlove wd him that saying goodbye was not an easy thing but i know was the ryt thing. i really had a very difficult time of convincing my self to stop loving him but the more i let him go in my mind, the more i long for him in my heart. I feel so empty but the emptiness made me strong for i know there is always a reason for leaving. I hope his happy thu i know he wud had been happier wid me.but in case he can find reason to fight for me then ill be the happiest person on the planet.... but he cant.............for some reasons. he is Aga Mulach lols amards bayot

[mon3tt3]

its really sakit man jud gud kung emotionally... attach kay ka sa tao.. blinded kaayu and at the same time clouded kaayu imu mind.. if youre with ur friends and then maminaw ka sa ila advice you think youre strong enough and that you can leave him.. but when it comes to the confrontation part, ud realize nga hunahuna ra diay nimu gadako nga kaya nmu when all the while kuyos diay gihapon ka even with just single "stop feeling that way na.. i know thats not true" crap... d nasad diay kaya himuon..

[Tirong-say]

But the mind can teach the heart that someone more rewarding in the upcoming future is still within your grasp. It would be an ideal indication for your perfect match, when the mind and your heart is in harmony when they scrutinize the being that you choose..

[coolguyiam20]

lgi noh??imong huna2 dli nka..pro imong kasing2 msukol pa jud..ai bhala naskitan nah..
kahbw nka nga gboang rka pro imo ra gbaliwala..sakita bitaw ana oi..kung pwde pa lang butangan og utok ang kasing2..butangan nlng jud..

[mon3tt3]

But the mind can teach the heart that someone more rewarding in the upcoming future is still within your grasp. It would be an ideal indication for your perfect match, when the mind and your heart is in harmony when they scrutinize the being that you choose..

true.. but its undeniable man sad cguru na once you are on that situation naa ka sa wishful thinking stage.. kanang miskan claru na bitaw kaayu na di na pareho before ang dagan sa nu relationship, imong mind set is same ra japon before nga pareha pamu duha ug line of thinking when fact of the matter is ikaw nalang nalang diay nag think that way...

[coolguyiam20]

^^mas maau pa ana sis..tangtanga ang kasing2 kay mao na ang kagaw sa atong kinabuhi..heheheh..
kung wa kay kasing2 dli ka maskitan,dli ka mgpaskit..busa tang-tanga na imong kasing2..toinkz..ehhehe

[mon3tt3]

^^mas maau pa ana sis..tangtanga ang kasing2 kay mao na ang kagaw sa atong kinabuhi..heheheh..
kung wa kay kasing2 dli ka maskitan,dli ka mgpaskit..busa tang-tanga na imong kasing2..toinkz..ehhehe

unsaon sad pag love kung wa naka kasing-kasing?

[Tirong-say]

true.. but its undeniable man sad cguru na once you are on that situation naa ka sa wishful thinking stage.. kanang miskan claru na bitaw kaayu na di na pareho before ang dagan sa nu relationship, imong mind set is same ra japon before nga pareha pamu duha ug line of thinking when fact of the matter is ikaw nalang nalang diay nag think that way...

Bitaw Sis mao nay labing pait, but sometimes tungod sa pinagsamahan it is not easy to say things that might hurt the opposite side, naa gyuy gap sa communication labi na ma-involve na ang sensitivities with feelings. Sakit baya na nga situwasyon mas maayo open na lang gyud sa usag-usa and expect for anything that might evolve. Lisud magpadayon sa usa ka relasyon nga dili na tinuod, ug nagpadayon lang kay usa nila nagtuo pa nga naa lang gihapon ang essence nganong naa pa gihapon sila sa ilahang relasyon. Maorag matawag nato iyahang giilad iyahang kaugalingon tungod sa iyahang gugma, which is for me dili na pud maayo ug wala na puy mapaabot sa unahan..

[mon3tt3]

mao lage sis sa? haaaay naa ta fast forward sa life sa aron dretso naka sa moment na kung amhisgutan ning panghitaboa sa imu life.. ull just laugh about it nalang..