losing frenship over samting claptrap :(

[PipayNove]

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i have a (guy) friend.. who is so close to me.. 3yrs acquainted na.
as in close na we almost spend most of our time together ... [clear lng, migo jd ko ni as in/no double meaning]

my dilemma is that,until now mag 1 week na still we're not ok.as in walay paramdam,wala contact and though everyday mi duha mag online as in dedma ra jd q nya hurting..huhu T_T

to be honest,yes!i hav done samting rong. so unreasonable thing na cguro na puno na xa sa aq batasan i acted so stupid and nanganad ra pd ko kay sya man n i knw he'll do everytng jd 2 make me feel better everytm sukmaton ko . waaa

all i tot is dat he knws me so well and accpt kung nsa jd q.. na iya jd q sabton always.like wat he did b4.


my concern s ds,i want to ask help?pls give me words of encourgemnt pa,kay bsag i knw nsa dapat buhaton nako,ex. ang mo say sorry or mag paka humble q for our frenship.. frankly speakng lng jd,dli nako keri!!! waaaa
im not being spoiled brat yet dli jd nako carry mo admit ug sayop n say sorry to him esp sa iya na naanad na jd ko xa mopa-ubos bsag akong sala.. i totally knw ds is wrong.pero tabang!saon lage ni?i want to utter those sincere sorry pero kanang dli obvious na nagmahay jd ko.hehe

everytime pdung nako slip maglain jd ako buot about this,mao ako nlng ipagawas haha pra ma less pd. mura na jd mi igsoon na magskit ako heart kung dli mi magtakad

i knw u can help
tnx storyans! God bless

[baby_reisa]

aq una sizzy ha?eheh..

ana ni sya..better jud f paubos ka..juz dnt wait nga moabot ang tym nga mawagtangan na sya interest nga motagad u..ma.waste jud ang inyong pinagsamahan ana...

basta siz...I know wat u feel right now maybe naa gamay kaikog,pride, then morag lain jud sa imong feeling..morag awkward paminawon ryt?

pero u shud make a move na...dnt let that pride or strange feeling cut off ur nice relationship..

maybe nahurot najud yang patience over ur attitude..I know he's also thinking na it's better for you to learn a lesson..a way to teach you to be more matured..to control urself..

asus..Im sure siz sya pud nagsakit ang dughan..syempre sood gud au mo then mokalit lang nga la mo commu so makamiss jud to sya sa mga times nga kuyog2x mo much more if maka adto sya sa mga place nga nahang.outan ninyo..makaremember to sya olwez..

ana mana sometimes ang mga guys..nahan sila makafeel nga important pud sila nato..eheh....

go for it siz..even though di pa nimo kaya..make atleast a little way to let him feel nga important sya nimo eventhough naa pa sya tampo/galit over u..

hope Iv made a little help...eheh

[PipayNove]

aq una sizzy ha?eheh..

ana ni sya..better jud f paubos ka..juz dnt wait nga moabot ang tym nga mawagtangan na sya interest nga motagad u..ma.waste jud ang inyong pinagsamahan ana...

basta siz...I know wat u feel right now maybe naa gamay kaikog,pride, then morag lain jud sa imong feeling..morag awkward paminawon ryt?

pero u shud make a move na...dnt let that pride or strange feeling cut off ur nice relationship..

maybe nahurot najud yang patience over ur attitude..I know he's also thinking na it's better for you to learn a lesson..a way to teach you to be more matured..to control urself..

asus..Im sure siz sya pud nagsakit ang dughan..syempre sood gud au mo then mokalit lang nga la mo commu so makamiss jud to sya sa mga times nga kuyog2x mo much more if maka adto sya sa mga place nga nahang.outan ninyo..makaremember to sya olwez..

ana mana sometimes ang mga guys..nahan sila makafeel nga important pud sila nato..eheh....

go for it siz..even though di pa nimo kaya..make atleast a little way to let him feel nga important sya nimo eventhough naa pa sya tampo/galit over u..

hope Iv made a little help...eheh

u did.. im crying jd
oa kaayo noh?bsta honestly ds is so weird..
sis,bahala so immature kaayo ang question ha?so wat man ang starting line dapat nako e speak out? "sorry"?? unsa ba oi,,im totally out of my mind.

as in magpaka humble jd ko?ds s ur point?

[baby_reisa]

wat I mean is..di paman kaha nimo carry nga makigtok nya?

make a little way..lets say..naa mo kaila then send him a card or something cute for him to remember ur closeness..

example..fav food ninyo is banana q? daghan mo moments eating together?

ask someone nga mo.give nya para makaremember pud sya nimo ba..then he'll slowly realized nga namiss naka nya..soon he'll be the one to make a way para magka.ok mo..

[baby_reisa]

by and by...makapundo naka ug courage to face him and accept ur mistakes..

tell him to forgive and forget and tell him that you would try ur best to not do it again...

dnt waste time siz..make a move asap..u myt not know nagwait ra diay sya nga mo.admit naka sa imong mistake..basin diay nagpalahi rana sya..he might think nga for a change kaw napud magpaubos..

[Egoist]

hmmm buhata ang naa sa imong huna2 ug kasing2 bahalag di nimo kerii hehehhe

[PipayNove]

tnx sis reisa.. wud try my bst to do dat

yeah egoist,i shud follow wat it says pra dli ko magsakit.hehe tnx a lot too!

[Yurnero]

Invite him to a coffee or something and ingna nga naa ka isulti nya. Makasabot na cya ana. If all goes right, you may not have to say sorry at all. Ikaw ang sayop, ikaw dapat mag initiative.

[bint0i]

follow wat ur hart want sis, asta pd na imong frend nagsakit pd na ang dughan...
nag.hinuwatay lang mung duha.

[babypaupau]

if its any comfort,ur not alone. bag o ra ko nahuman ana nga dilemna

anyway, i think its best that you try and reach out to him first. i know its hard to the extent that you'd feel really stupid doing it but its all worth it. tell him how you feel and dont miss out on anything. kumbaga, lay your cards and leave him to decide if he still wants to be with you or not. if he's really ur friend, he'll come around. but if he chooses otherwise, at least you already apologized. ang pinaka importante is u dont have to worry about carrying the guilt and blame over what happened. if he cant get over it, then maybe he was never really a friend to begin with.sometimes ma over estimate man gud nato ang atong self, the other person and the relationship we have with them. we tend to do crazy things, thinking that we'll always get away with them... only to find na d diay dili ma accept na we also have our share of idiosyncracies.